I met a Jamacian on my vacation to Jamacia. He was light skinend for a Jamaica and had amazing golden eyes. I went on a Canopy Tour there and he took pictues, so ppl can buy them later. We bought some of them and in the process we got to flirt a little. He even gave us free pics too. He said on my way bac to the bus to call him. But i have no idea his # or even his name. I wrote an email to the adress on the website and a cd. I also plan to go back there as soon as my mother will let em travel alone with my friends. Is taht obsessive or love at first site.
2006-07-03 12:33:56 · 21 answers · asked by Gaga <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Good luck. I don't know what more to say.
2006-07-03 12:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not unusual to have a crush on someone you met on vacation, but it's unrealistic to think anything can come of it. You met him once. Just think of it as a happy memory. If you got to know him, he might not be the person you think he is. If he- hypothetically, because he probably flirts with everyone- became serious about you, how would you know he wasn't just looking for someone to marry for immigration? This happens a lot so please be careful!!
2006-07-03 12:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obsessive? Yes, but so is love at first sight.
Hey, it worked for Stella in the movie "How Stella Got Her Groove Back." If you really want to, then pursue it, but don't expect a commitment. If this guy is as good looking as you think then he probably plays the field.
2006-07-03 12:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar experience except I am the Jamaican but I couldn't be me since that was 9 years ago this happened July 15,2015.
2015-07-30 11:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's infatuation. it's powerful, and can be mistaken for love. although there is always the chance that you may have boom! chemically bonded with the guy, and are doomed to love him, (haha) more often than not, this type of experience has a heady, otherworldly effect on us, and it simply is our desire to continue to feel the rush of attraction, with the hope of finding love. see how you feel after you get ahold of him, and spend time getting to know him. good luck.
2006-07-03 12:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by grumpy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
down right stupid
I agree with girlonline64. Salesmen always flirt and when you get older you will notice these things and I hope your parents don't let you travel alone for quite a few years
2006-07-03 12:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are a obsessive and a bit of a stalker. he probably flirts with everyone to sell more pictures.
2006-07-03 12:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by girlonline64 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm maybe. He lives in Jamaca. How is the relationship gonna work. Good luck with that one.
2006-07-03 12:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mz.H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like infatuation. Your young, there will be more of these vacations in your life. Enjoy them for what they are.
2006-07-03 12:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by JACK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't old enough to travel alone, you certainly aren't old enough to know what love is. You are obsessing here.
2006-07-03 12:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That could be love at first sight, but i dont think its obsessive
2006-07-03 12:36:08 · answer #11 · answered by Ohio Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋