we dates for 5 months she dumped me.....she took my viiginity....she calls me three weeks later saying shes misses me and wants to hang out... when i ignore her she calls more... when i tell her how much i care about her she stops talking to me... i really love this chic but i just dont get it how to i make her know how much i love her
2006-07-03 12:28:31 · 7 answers · asked by jarrod_234 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
She doesn't know you were a virgin right?
Something tells me she was one also. Yet for girls if you expose your feelings to them after something like that it can scare them off.
Hang out with her as friends awhile and keep things moving slow awhile, this will strengthen your bond with each other and maybe you 2 can salvage a relationship.
2006-07-03 12:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by lovpayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls can be so difficult! Trust me. It hurts when their is not good communication. You will have to make the decision whether or not to keep trying to get her attention. Don't let yourself get too involved because it really sounds like she doesn't want what you're wanting. When you involve sex too soon in a relationship it can cause many problems. If she loves you too, then give it more time and see what comes about with the two of you. Best of luck!
2006-07-03 19:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by ddy'sgrl77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably clinging to hard and scaring her off. Don't tell her how much you care about her, don't follow her around, in fact, act like she isn't even there.
Yeah, I know, it does not make any sense, but you have a woman that needs the thrill of conquest, not a steady mate.
Oh, and for God's sake, don't marry her. Trust me on this one.
-Dio
2006-07-03 19:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by diogenese19348 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make her jealous --OR-- Offer her allot of money (beginning at $2,755) --or-- do something really nice for her (like buy her a new convertible car w/hydraulics , tint windows , bass , built in blender , built in microwave or a limo) --or-- sacrifice yourself for her (not a good idea) --or-- make a really good r&b love song for her
most of those are un-realistic/dangerous , so I would stick with love song or make her jealous
2006-07-03 19:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by Spider Pig aka Tyrone Biggums 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand outside her window and blare "In Your Eyes" on your boombox. Make sure you hold the boombox over your head when you do it.
2006-07-03 19:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by poohu812many 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her!
2006-07-03 19:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it like this
some ppl like what they can't have
but when they have it they don't want it
2006-07-03 23:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by Am so Curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋