Is it a totally normal thing for guys to watch porn even though their gf lives with them & has sex regularly 2-4times a wk? Not letting the gf know, watching it when she aint home.. not all the time, Im guessing around once a week, at most twice a wk.. btw im the gf.. just wanted to know if its a guy thing or if somethings wrong.
2006-07-03 12:13:49 · 19 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is normal. Especially if you are uptight about him watching it. Who wants to listen to someone complain about it? Whether or not your OK with it is beside the point. He's already hiding, he will just hide it better. Maybe start giving it up 5-7 times a week.
2006-07-03 12:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a normal thing. There has been studies that indicate that men are turned on by visual stimulation more than women, who prefer tactile stimulation (men like to watch, women like to touch). He watches porn to feed that need for visual stimulation. That does not mean he has any issues with your sex life, or you. It sounds like you have a good relationship. Don't let a silly thing like porn cause you a moment's concern.
2006-07-03 19:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by Arlene06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal
Like being an alcoholic is normal.
Pornography will warp your attitude about women and sex. It is addicting, and it is a mistake.
Normalcy is irrelevant. Think about right and wrong. Good for you bad for you. Consider that you hide it from your girlfriend. Does this seem like a good thing in your lives?
get off it go on the wagon you will be glad you did
2006-07-03 19:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by enginerd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal, don't worry about it. It has nothing to do with your sex life. Pornography and masturbation both are sexual, yes, but they're totally different from the sensations and experience of being with a partner you love.
What *he* should be worried about, though, is if it's making you uncomfortable. I hope you're not afraid to talk to him about this because it might help if he knew that you were concerned about it. Your anxiety is totally normal, and he should be able to understand that.
2006-07-03 19:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal... ALL guys like to look, we can't help ourselves. It's just a part of our nature... besides... if he's watching it and screwing you then you should be happy. Now, if it becomes an addiction and he starts playing with himself more than with you... then you should be concerned. If it's a big issue... just replace the porn tapes/dvd's with some home movies of his grandma... that'll put a stop to it real quick.
2006-07-03 19:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by TheLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like to watch porn and it doesn't matter if you have a girlfriend and have sex regularly. Any guy who says he doesn't like porn is either lying, just plain weird or a religious freak.
2006-07-03 19:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Harm Pornography Causes
SEXUAL material of all kinds is easily accessible through television, movies, music videos, and the Internet. Is this relentless intrusion of pornographic, sexualized imagery harmless, as many would have us believe?*
You have a very valid question! Maybe after you read this article and see for yourself what it does, you can better help your boyfriend.
The article is here----->http://www.watchtower.org/library/g/2003/7/22/article_03.htm
2006-07-03 19:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a guy thing. If he is more interested in porn than you, then you have a problem. My wife looks at porn with me and we talk openly about what turns us on, we have found that we like alot of the same stuff and have fun with porn. Check it out with him, you may find something that you like.
2006-07-03 19:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not normal. of course everyone would like to believe that (especially the guys) but it's not. like said before, it can become an addiction, and it is when you ask him not to do it and he won't/can't stop.
do you like him goggling other women? you don't want him to cheat on you physically so why mentally?
I think it's not a lack of sex, it's a weak mind, a lack of control of yourself.
just ask yourself, do you like that he's hiding stuff from you and has other women on his mind? if you absolutely don't mind, it's ok I guess for the both of you, but if not, you have a right to be concerned.
2006-07-03 19:20:49 · answer #9 · answered by sarea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every moment you aren't having sex with him is a moment he would like to be watching porn. It's perfectly fine (and you shouldn't feel obligated to have sex more often)
2006-07-03 19:17:13 · answer #10 · answered by DonSoze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋