2006-07-03 12:05:26 · 18 answers · asked by terri 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
divorce him...some people make great husbands but crappy dads and some times it's the other way around...you don't have to be married to be a good parent..as long as you both love your children and take care of them....that's all that matters...it's up to you if you want to sell yourself short....just think if you know it how others look at you when they see ya...if your upset your kids can tell...so i wouldn't think that would be healthy for them...he should respect your marriage and if he doesn't the down the road he should go
2006-07-03 12:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by stanyazfan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How can you put your children through this? Kids are real smart. There's not much you can keep from them. You should have a long talk with your husband, is this what he wants to continue doing. If so let him go and try to remain friends if he is a good dad. Even though you two are not together you can both be great parents. Everything you do, do in Love. Take Care
2006-07-03 12:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by sam04m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband and Dad are two different rolls. Kick the cheating husband out, but let the dad see his children.
Have some respect for yourself, even though no one else does.
2006-07-03 12:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce. If he is cheating, he really isn't a good father, because he is teaching the children that this behavior is acceptable. You in turn are enabling him to do it and to teach the children that marriage has no value. Your inaction is almost as bad as his action. You might want to maintain the family image and bond with the children by telling him that you want a diviorce, but would like him to stay in the house in a seperate room from you. You also need to tell him that he can't have his little chickies around the house, nor mention them. It could work, but usually doesn't.
2006-07-03 12:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, never stay in a relationship because of the kids, itll eat you apart, it sounds like its time to take a serious look at your relationship with this guy. Remember he can be a good father to your kids divorced and you would probably be happier because of it cause no guy should ever cheat on his life partner or he should have never married her in the first place, but ultimately the choice is yours and yours only good luck
2006-07-03 12:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can still be a good dad if you're divorced, but he won't be a cheating husband anymore!!
2006-07-03 12:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by sakareri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out his net worth and divide it by two- your half and his half. He is setting a terrible example for his children about how adults act and what marriage is all about- so no he is not a good dad. A good dad would not do that to his children's mother! Leave him!
2006-07-03 12:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by weswe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can stop cheating and it can be worked out, keep him, if not, divorce him. He can still be a good dad, even if you're not together.
2006-07-03 12:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by Agent Double EL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do that to your self. the kids will one day understand. yhe can be a good dad from a different house. devorce him honey dont belittle yourself to him.
2006-07-03 12:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by Crimson_Skies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can be a good dad while your divorced. thats good that your thinking bout the kids.
2006-07-03 12:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋