2006-07-03 12:02:45 · 30 answers · asked by little district girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
love is beleiving in them, knowing where they are taking you, to beleive in what they say, to go along with them only when you're conciunce tells you it's allright. that all comes down to trust. if you can't do them you don't love them. love is not looks it is whats inside that counts.
2006-07-03 12:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you can love them...BUT it will fade if the trust cannot be gained. There are reasons we don't trust, just be sure that someone you love is the one that caused mistrust. Alot of times not trusting stems from our past experiences and is transferred over to current people. Not trusting can turn into jealousy and all of the other emotional monsters, and the relationship can only be headed downward. There is nothing better than loving someone and trusting them.....it turns into something that is pretty wonderful.....intimacy.
2006-07-03 19:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no... Love isn't the truest question, if a person cant be trusted then you spend all of your time second guessing the persons true intentions on anything. after a while Love will die because of the mistrust...
2006-07-03 19:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by eldertrouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love the person if being able to trust a person isn't vitally important to you.
If it is, you can still love the person, but I don't think you can ever feel really secure with him/her. I would think you would always have a little strain of "Can I believe this? Is this the truth? What is he/she really doing (or thinking or wanting)?
2006-07-03 19:06:25 · answer #4 · answered by LC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, You can love someone you dont trust, becuz when you fell in love with them you may not have known you couldnt trust them, but now that you know you cant, you prbly wont beable to stop loving them, but you should prbly break things off with them.
2006-07-03 19:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by Va-Akgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love someone you don't trust but the love will turn to dislike maybe even hate if you don't end it first. I wouldn't recommend putting yourself through that , find someone worthy of your affection.
2006-07-03 19:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can feel love for them, and still choose not to be involved with them in order to protect yourself from heartache. After all, if you can't trust them, then it's clear that they don't truly love you.
2006-07-03 19:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by HearKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. i am in love and married to someone i have trust issues with. it is not easy but they have alot of qualities that are attractive to me. in time it has improved but there have been rough times. not to say it is for you but it is possible.
2006-07-03 19:55:27 · answer #8 · answered by scorpio63 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with love comes trust and vice versa.
2006-07-03 19:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by synapse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. The distrust will eventually eat away at the love.
2006-07-04 00:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋