2006-07-03 11:40:13 · 17 answers · asked by dragon_fly200430 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stay well clear ,he obviously wants to have his cake and eat it,if your getting divorced it can not have been that good first time around so why would you want to repeat that ?
2006-07-03 11:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by okayalder62 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is only interested in what he can no longer have. You have become a quest for him. Don't do the most likely and take him back for goodness sake. He has already shown you his true colors. Next thing you know he will be treating you like the other woman and asking someone else to stay with him. Best move on.....you will be much happier.
2006-07-03 18:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by Saint 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That shouldn't even be a question, tell him to take a hike. Have you ever heard the expression "have cake and eat it too". Don't belittle yourself like that, find someone you can trust and that will care about you, not just want to get another piece like this guy seems to want. Him having another woman, just about says it all.
2006-07-03 18:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by funnyface53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the long run you would be better off not having anything to do with him...If you have children you will always need good communication and your children need it....Don't feel sorry for him stand your ground because sounds like he is just working you over...Trying to get on your better side...Its OK to be nice to him let him think you care for him...But divorces is not good and the fact is it will be over one day soon but in the end you need to take care of the one and only...Don't let him get to your soft side and that's what hes trying to do then come in for the kill to get his way...Hold your own and things will get better and better with time..Good luck smile let him go and be happy !!
2006-07-03 19:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a divorce and tell him to leave you alone, you already tried this and it didn't work, you have 3 years in to getting back to your life, going backwards is never a good idea. even if he has figured out that he made a mistake and wants to be with you, well tough beans, a day late and a dollar short.
2006-07-03 18:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to be kidding - to even ask this question!! Are U nuts? Don't you want someone that has a little respect for you? Have some respect for yourself, for Godess' sake!
2006-07-03 18:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by moonmother2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say no he justs wants to mess with your head. and some states will not leagalize a divorce if you have had sex during a certain amount of time
2006-07-03 20:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by ann_gonzalez2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to use you. Obviously he's sexually attracted to you. He wants to keep you on a string. He can only do what you let him do and I say hold your head up, keep your self esteem and let his booty keep walking. You can't continue to see him because your emotions are involved. You have to guard your emotions because no one else will.
2006-07-03 20:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants a little bootie call. If you are willing....so be it. I think it could just get ugly, complicated and screw up the kids if they know what is going on.
2006-07-03 18:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by lisalisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you have kids together?if not the only reason i can think he would want to see you is that he still has feelings for you.just go ahead and see what he wants i would
2006-07-03 18:44:08 · answer #10 · answered by dede2772 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋