My sister checked her husband's email and he's being seeing this girl for like the last three or four months now, he keeps lying saying that he is not doing anything, but the emails say different. My sister also has access to his voicemail and the girl is always leaving messages saying" I miss you so much, thank you for coming over last night...." My sister knows where the girl lives and works. Then on top of that for the last 3 or 4 months, her husband has been coming in at 4 in the morning everytime he goes and "hangs with the guys", ( which seems to be becoming an almost every other night thing now) What would you do?
2006-07-03 11:27:20 · 20 answers · asked by Blissful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He doesn't want a divorce or to be with that other woman or he would come clean with her. She would just be playing into that other womans hand if she were to leave him. Men have that doggish nature if the opportunity presents itself and will act upon it. It is up to her what happens next as far as confronting him or just biding her time until he gets bored with that other woman and grows up. Reassure her that she has done nothing for him to want to see this other woman, he made that choice.
2006-07-03 11:35:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, it really is the interior song: someone is mendacity. i comprehend you knew that, yet each from time to time you should state the obtrusive and construct from there. the 2d part of that is, you comprehend your husband, and also you do not comprehend this different lady. you comprehend the way your husband lies, yet this different lady is a finished black field. If I misinform my spouse, she on the instantaneous knows. (ok, she did the single time I lied, so per chance I do exactly not practice sufficient.) in case you won't be able to tell in the experience that your husband is mendacity, then both he's a magnificent liar (in which case, why did you marry him?) or he's telling the reality. the different lady, you have not any thanks to carry close how good of a liar she is, so don't have self assurance her purely because she feels like she's telling the reality. Take your husband with you and confront her jointly. She is way less in all chance to lie about being with him even as he's there. you could ask her for information, and then ask your husband what he became doing on the cases even as she says she became with him. See in case you could seize her in a lie or your husband in a lie.
2016-11-30 05:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Hire a private detective.
2. Ask the guy to take a lie detector test.
3. Based on results of 1 and 2, leave or get over being suspicious.
2006-07-03 11:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by Robin W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can only do what you allow him to do. Confront him with the evidence you have and tell him not to belittle you by not being honest now. You need to decide what you will tolerate and what you are able to forgive. Is this the first time, was there a reason he turned to another. Don't allow him to lower your self esteem becuase he doesn't know what he wants. Best of Luck
2006-07-03 11:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by Julie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide if you are better with him or without him. If you're better with him, then you need a GOOOOOOOD marriage counselor. If not, then it's time to leave. Take the proof to a good divorce lawyer, and have a nice life without having to worry about him cheating.
2006-07-03 11:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by Amber E 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would hire a private I. then divorce him and take him for everything he is worth. the house the car(s) the children if any and alimony and have him court ordered to pay my court costs because he was the one who cheated. tell her to be smart and get a lawyer and a private I. really im being so damn serious. and good luck to your sister she deserves a hell of a whole lot better.
2006-07-03 11:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Lady Geo.....get the physical proof and shove it in his face. A private detective might be a good idea too....photos of this would seal the deal in divorce court.
2006-07-03 11:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by Lilah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What more does she need to know that he's being unfaithful? She should leave immediately...she doesn't know if he's having unprotected sex with this girl. Not to mention the lying, the deciet and the utter lack of respect for her!
2006-07-03 11:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get copies of the emails and voicemail, then confront him with the evidence if he still lies take the info 2 a good divorce attorney.
2006-07-03 11:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not a hard question for me. I would hit the door running It would be like magic.when i found out he was cheating on me Poof i would be gone.I would be gone so fast.that you would not see nothing but the smoke i would be leaving behind from running out the door so fast.
2006-07-03 11:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋