I have a daughter whos 3 years old and her daddy left me, he says he loves me and i love him but he has twin boys who are the same age as my daughter but he says he never cheated what do you think should i give him another chance ? I need him our daughter and i lost our uncle late saturday night and i cant talk to him at this time what should i tell him?
2006-07-03 11:23:52 · 17 answers · asked by nay_cash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell him to be honest with you and tell you all the truth. if he does and you can trust him still then you decide if you want him back. think about really hard and consider whats best for your kid
2006-07-03 11:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by adi23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your baby's daddy has been cheating on you...if he has a set of twins the same age as your child....He should have a good loving relationship with all his children, but you need to write him off as a boy friend. If he loved you like you think he does or he says he does then he would not have other children the same age as yours. It is true that everyone makes mistakes, but look at it this way.....he had unprotected sex with some one else with no regards for his health and most importantly with no regards or the health and safety of his baby's mother(YOU). A Good, Faithful, Loving and caring man would put is family first and himself last. Don't sell yourself short. You are worth much more than HIM. Good Luck---ella
2006-07-03 11:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long were you with him? Did you get pregnant in the begining of the relationship? If so, is it possible that he got the other woman pregnant FIRST???? Because if your daughter IS older than his twins, then he did cheat on you. If he did cheat, and he is gone all the time now, then he does not really care about you. It's just words to get something in return from you. Or else he would STAY with you, and not be somewhere else. I know it sounds hard, sorry :( But, be strong. Do you really need a cheater in your life? (If he is one)......
2006-07-03 11:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by KAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he didn't cheat on you, how in the world does he have two twin boys. Do you want him back that bad to believe a story that couldn't possibly be true. How do you think he could have children if they are not yours and the same age as your daughter. What should you tell him, to get lost
2006-07-03 11:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by funnyface53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, how long were you together before the baby? Is it possible he got one pregnant than met you? For example, are the boys three years 11 months and your girl is 3 years 1 month, and you only were together a few weeeks? If he is willing to be there and help you out, take the help, take him, just dont get too attached you know...be on your gaurd and if he messes up, ditch him. But for now you have to do whats best for your little girl.
2006-07-03 11:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by Cozzette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that your having problems and it would be nice for him to talk to you but its a bad time right now. and i know baby daddy stuff is hard, i have a child too but you got to do what you got to do, dont let a ***** hold you back... once they cheat they always cheat i found that out the hard way (5 years with my baby daddy before i decited that i couldnt take it)
2006-07-03 11:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He left you, and you're wondering about giving him another chance. Didn't he choose to leave?
He got 2 of you pregnant at the same time? Is he married?
Isn't it 'my baby's daddy?'
2006-07-03 11:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by cowgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really is one of those problematical ingredient. you pick to be smooth to him yet at the same time you pick to be excited it really is afterall your 2d baby! I had a nonetheless born at 5 months not finished time period yet adequate to damage. i'm now pregnant lower back and merely exceeded my 5 month mark and am praying for the excellent. I do understand his thoughts. i imagine you may help him artwork through his grief over that kid he lost because until eventually he does that he will have a problematical time accepting and being chuffed about this new being pregnant. Remind him that you're a diverse woman and it really is a diverse infant. Dont push him to be to in touch attempt to understand although im particular its problematical reason i understand your excited! merely attempt to help him heal. Time does wonders!! Congratulations!!!
2016-11-05 21:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just live your life without him I know that sometimes its hard but if he has sons the same age as your daughter then honey he cheated and you dont need that.
2006-07-03 11:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about you mother, or your sister if you have one, or a best girlfriend, you will always have to communicate with him, because you have children, but you need to find out where the relationship stands, and where it is going and if you can trust him.
2006-07-03 11:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by Marixza M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋