2006-07-03 11:14:15 · 23 answers · asked by kiki_cece 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah, only if flirtings all your doing..
my grandma flirts with the young men in the street lol and thats what keeps her young.
2006-07-03 11:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by ~bootilicious~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a very fine line...I think we all tend to flirt to some degree. The key is that when you flirt your not crossing that fine line in doing something that will cause problems in your marriage. You definitely shouldn't be touching and you also shouldn't engage in anything that is personal that you wouldn't discuss with your spouse. The final rule is don't keep it going...flirting once in awhile on occasion with someone is normal but if it is every day on a regular basis then you've crossed that fine line again. My rule is don't do something that you wouldn't do if your spouse was there.
2006-07-03 18:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this a trick question???
lol
ok here goes......
well personally i wouldnt do it while in a relationship married or not, firstly i wouldnt wanna hurt my boo, and secondly, why shop around when you have the good shiit at home........ however i get told that i have a flirtatious nature but i dont even notice im doin it!!!! sometimes i think that cos i wink alot....or if i am nice and polite to a woman, or hold open a door, or say awrite love, or if i am cheeky and crack joke they sometimes take it the wrong way....
as for my woman.... i wouldnt like it at all.... (is that bad?...if it is don't tell on me ..lol) and.... if it were to happen in front of me i would find it quite disrespectful and it would probably cause a row.... so.... (god im prolly gonna be hated now) i would say no.... the thought of a guy seein and thinkin of my lady in that way would drive me crazy........
sorry
2006-07-04 07:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well everyone needs to feel good about them self and if flirting makes you feel good then do it....But watch who you flirt with some may take it the wrong way...I like ladys to flirt with me but I'm single and happy..
2006-07-03 18:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it can be dangerous and the flirting should be tame. If both you and your partner are ok with it and know it is not serious I think it is ok to flirt. A good rule of thumb is not to do it if you wouldnt do it with your partner with you.
2006-07-03 18:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by the_flogged_dog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. Marriage is a bonding relationship that brings two together as one. You are devoted to that person and no other. Flirt with your spouse, but no one else.
2006-07-03 19:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by Maximus Smoothcool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its ok as long as it doesn't go beyond that. If you both feel secure in the relationship then flirt away.
2006-07-03 19:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by buttseyeluv43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I watch my man flirt with other girls. It is not cheating, but it makes me feel really bad. Think of your spouse's feelings. It is a serious way to hurt someone.
2006-07-03 18:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is ok as long as it stops there ( unless you have an open marriage )
2006-07-03 18:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by uniroyalfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will have to go with grrl and jessica on this one.I don't think it is ok to flirt if you are married.
2006-07-03 18:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋