2006-07-03 11:01:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my dad lives with them both my dad is always with HER and not me (i live with mom) they r getting a house together (buying) i told my dad didnt like them and he said get over it he is an as s i know
2006-07-03 11:08:51 · update #1
i have known them both for 7 months and i still hate them both!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-03 11:10:18 · update #2
love your enemies...
or keep your friends close and your enemies closer...
ohhh come on to them...creep them out 100%..oh yeah even come onto dad's gf...because you are messing around...it'll create its own drama....they'll avoid you like the plague..your dad will know you are just messing with him and he might get pissed but your dad (if he really is a dad and not just a father) will LOVE YOU always,..
if all three of these are not feasible...YOU HAVE TO TALK WITH YOUR DAD when they aren't around..don't attack..he'll get personal and defensive...but if you show him that you thought this out with pros and cons...then he'll see this is really bothering you and will work things out as best as he can...
2006-07-03 11:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have a serious discussion with your father. tell him you miss spending time with him. if your father has found someone he loves there really is not a whole lot you can do about it other than be respectful of his feeling, one day you may find yourself caring very deeply for someone your father disaproves of.
if you have valid reasons for not liking this woman and her daughter, s/a they are abusive physically or mentally discuss these with him, try not to become over emotional in your conversations or he may see it as inmaturity. you should sit and look at your self and the situation as well, it may be inmaturity (im sorry i dont know all the details im just throwing things out here) you may not be ready to see your dad settle down with another family and there is nothing wrong with that. it is normal. how old are you? bc if you have some valid reasons for not liking these ppl and not wanting to be around them and your father refuses to see it bc he is blinded by love you may have the rite to decide that you do not want to visit his house ne longer,
like i said, i do not know all the circumstances, sit down, re-evaluate the situation, are you jealous? discuss this with him, tell him you realize, you are sorry, you will give them a better chance but you still miss your one on one time with him and would like to still do things once in a while with him. if this woman is mean to you or neglects you discuss this with him, his reactions to your conversation should let you know where to go from there.
good luck.
2006-07-03 18:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by mommaslosthermind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say try to get to know them. Hang out with the woman's daughter. Hey, she might be your sister some day! :) You might turn out liking her. And as for the woman, just accept her. It'll be your dad making the desicion in the end, not you.
2006-07-03 18:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by HOT STUFF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give them another chance, But if you've done that way to many times already and they've screwed them up try talking to your dad. If he doesn't listen you have a minor problem. Try talking to another adult or a close personal friend.
2006-07-03 18:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by jazzy_country_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice for your Daddy's benifit and speak with him about your concerns. I hated my step-mother but I could do nothing and latter in life my Daddy told me that he wished that I had talked to him about it, so she would not have gotten away with treating me badly when he was not there to see her do it. Be sure that you keep your nose clean though or he will think that you are just being a spoiled brat and you don't want him to be happy. Good luck.
2006-07-03 18:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by Catfishchic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 ur dad and tell him dat u dont like (dont say hate even if u do cuz then he'll get mad at u and not pay attention) them. if that doesnt wrk, just ignore them (say 2 urself dat u dont have 2 waste ur time on them. if they ask u a ?, answer it and move on). u do wanna make ur dad at least a ltl happy dont u?
2006-07-03 18:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by Marianna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more information as to why you don't like them and why does your dad not know about your feelings?
2006-07-03 18:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not much you can do except try to avoid them. hopefully you don't live with you dad and don't have to be around them that much. let him know, in a calm and reasonable way, how you feel about them. tell him its fine if he wants them to be part of his life but you don't want them in yours. are you sure you don't resent them just because of their place in your dads life or do you really dislike who they are as people. if you just resent them because of that you really should just suck it up and try to be more mature about it. actually 'doing' anything about it is just going to make you look like a brat and cause you trouble for yourself. when you have to be with them avoid them as much as possible. with any luck your dad cares about you enough to respect your feelings on this subject.
2006-07-03 18:05:29 · answer #8 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your dad that you dislike them and the reasons........if that dont work you might have to just like them and nothing you can do about it as long as they are dating!!! hint as long as they are dating...LOL,LOL
2006-07-03 18:05:32 · answer #9 · answered by jameshootsandscores 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur dad how u feel but dont expect him to dump her just like that. but if shes rele treating u bad sorta like cinderella (lol) then deff tell him how shes treating u badly and he should definitely dump her
2006-07-03 18:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by strictly_maggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋