2006-07-03 10:43:19 · 19 answers · asked by nay_cash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
most guys really do love thier wives but end up cheating after being repetedly denied at home.if you keep turning him down he will feel un attractive or that you dont love him making him an easy target for any horny stray that hits on him.i know that life sucks and that men and women have thier urges at different stages in life but if you dont want him to stray then you gotta take one for the team and wear him out at home.show him you crave and love him as much as he does you and he will never stray because he wont want to lose what he has at home cuz love and great and frequent sex are very hard to find in the same woman.good luck.
2006-07-03 10:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the first part of your question, why do men cheat on their wives " there could be several reasons.
1. Just plain "GREED" 2. No respect for themselves or you. 3.Because they have done it over and over and when they are caught, they say sorry and women are so naive and keep accepting them back. 4. They feel they are missing something, that you are not giving them, {ex: anal,oral,threesomes, swinging w/other couples} 5.They don't know what COMMITMENT IS" as in the vows they took when they married you.6. Pressure from other male friends, co-workers or relatives, who see this as the norm, as pressure him, "which is a poor excuse" Everybody has a choice and a mind of their own. 7. Some men feel they have to conquer every women because there are more women and less men out there, so they have to spread the love, "yeah right"
In closing if you husband is doing this to you, GET OUT, you deserve much better and there are men out there looking for a Good women, just put your foot down, and be strong, prayer changes everything.
2006-07-03 11:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by Marixza M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This thing with committed men cheating gets asked quite a lot...and for good reason because it seems to baffle the bejesus out of women... the bio & psychological makeup of a woman is to find a man, a mate, a provider and settle down for security and caregiving for herself and her offsprings...such is the way women have evolved...the evolution of men, on the other hand, was to copulate and spead our genes without the major and intense emotional and psycholigical ties as women developed. Please understand that now that this world has become "civilized" (personally i think humanity still has a long way to go)...Us men are fighting an uphill battle when it comes to our sexual behaviour! Millions of years certainly can set a trend and it also proves as a tough contender. Non the less while I can honestly say that it is challenging for a male to remain sexually 'faithful' or monogamus, it is by no means impossible...In the end, some just do (like mua) ...and some don't...
2006-07-03 10:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by The Thinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, men are sex driven. If they cheat then they don't really love you, and are looking for a "fresh" piece of meat. Maybe their wife isn't as thin as she used to be, or maybe she's sick and has a condition unable to have sex. The reason they tell you they love you is they probably don't want you expecting anything and don't want to go through the trouble of being yelled at, given the cold shoulder or worse, divorce. Some guys are just meaner than others. I know that when my dad cheated on my mom, he didn't feel guilty or anything. Some guys aren't like that. You just have to get rid of him, move on, and try to find the right one.
2006-07-03 10:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by Heather S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because after so long of being with just one person doubt begins to form within they pea sized brains so they have to go out and experience what others do in bed. mainly a fantasy. or just because the person they're with are just no longer interested in being with them in a sexual way. I would say got out and do the same two can play that game n I'm sure that if you do... you'd feel a whole lot better... just as they do when they do it. BELIEVE ME! It's a relief.
2006-07-03 10:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do love something about the relationship with the other woman. They have a need or a want that is not being fulfilled in their present relationship with their wife so they go elsewhere to try and fill the void. That is what they love about the relationship...however, it won't last....they need to fill the void within themselves to be happy, no one else can do it for them.
2006-07-03 10:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's think about that. The word cheat, what does that conjour up? Liars, stealers, people who usurp other idenities and rights. Hmm, can they love really (at the same time).
YOU'VE GOT TO BE KIDDING!!! YOU ARE BEING USED FOR SEX AND NOTHING ELSE.
2006-07-03 10:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men think just cause they have a dickthey can stick it in anything.. and they tell u they love you cause they want to stick it in you too.
2006-07-03 10:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by Crazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they aren't getting what they need at home and they get emotionally attached. Then when it comes time to leave, they can't stand leaving the security of the relationship.
2006-07-03 10:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even want my wife for sex anymore. She's a great cook and great to other people. The sex with the mistresses is far better than what she can give.
2006-07-03 10:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋