my best friends had a fight about 2 days ago...i love both of them, but now, they wanted me to pick which side im on...what do i do?
2006-07-03 10:38:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont be on any sides just be honest and speak the truth.taking someones sides makes it worse and more complicated .stay true and dont take sides let them solve it .
2006-07-03 10:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by I want to believe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't pick any one side. the best thing is not to get involved. maybe try not talk to either one of them that much. and when they call you tell them that your not going to pick sides. you can try have a dinner get together. and talk to them and tell them how you feel. but don't pick sides, cause their both wrong if their best friends and best friend are suppose to be there for one another that's why its called best friend. (when you don't have your family around you have your friends.
2006-07-03 17:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by MICHELLY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell both of them at the same time you aren't going to pick sides, that you love both of them.
2006-07-03 17:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by prettycute4u62040 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take sides! If you choose one- the other will become your enemy...You want to keep both as friends. Just simply tell them "I love both of you -whatever is going on between the two of you is between the two of you" ...One of them might get mad because you won't take sides...but remind them that you are still there as a friend no matter what.Every relationship will be tested (love or friendship) Take my advise & you will pass your test, their test is their choice......Good Luck!
2006-07-03 17:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you are not in the fight so you shouldn't have to pick sides. beleive me! i've had alot of experience with that kind of stuff. It will work out! Good Luck!!!
2006-07-03 17:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Cortney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, look at both sides and see if one of them is more reasonable, if not, talk to your friends and tell them how you feel, cause if they are truly your friends they will respect that. Hope it works!
2006-07-03 17:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should go on neither side. you should let go for a bit so then each of ur bffs can chill a lil and think about what they've done to hurt each other.. then maybe u guys could go back together
2006-07-03 17:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by bLessed; 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get them together and have them all talk about if they are best friends they truley love each other a lot so they would do anything to get to be friends again if they get mad at you its totally worth it cause atleast the know how you feel!
2006-07-03 17:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by Allyson G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them ur not gonna pick sides cuase u love them both
2006-07-03 17:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to both of them
cuz if there both your best friendz
i got 3 best friendz and there want
me to choose one of them i will tell them that
if they are going to fight just cuz i got 3
BESTFRIENDZ
that they are to stupid to fight,
but i will tell them to be friend and
dont fight just for something stupid
but if they want to fight for something ignorant they would loose friendship that we have
2006-07-03 17:51:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋