how do I try and get over a death of a close friend?

Answer 1

TIME!
is the only cure.
allow youself to grieve and miss your friend if this is still fresh. than as time goes by, you will eventually stop greiving so badly ,but you will never forget. nor should you. I am sorry for your loss.

Answer 2

Metaphyshics might help you; look into it. It may enlighten you, and make you more aware of your surroundings. Like awareness that none of us ever really die, we only pass over to the other side, and evaluate what we learned while on this side, making us more wiser spirit guides for love ones on this side. Don't be afraid to check into the New Age book section in a major book store near you. This is the kind of knowledge King Solomon, Moses, and alike, acquired during their visitation here; which was ignored by the Christian scholars. Seek, and you shall find.

Answer 3

The same ways I have had to.
It hurts and you cry .. can't sleep. I think of all the good times and all the love we have shared together, The fun,laughter.sad tears
we have both cried .I always feel better knowing she is in a better place than I.A place with no pain, tears, sorrow
it has taken me awhile to accept she is gone but I can"t accept the fact that she took her own life and I had no clue she would do that, or why..but I still love her and she is still my best Friend.she is in heaven and I know she will never hurt again.
God Bless you and may you find peace.

Answer 4

This is hard. I lost my best mate when i was 14 and i still think of him each day. It does get better in time, dont push for it. I had to go and see soem one and talk to them about my feelings. My life stopped for a few years but time does heel the heart. Memories are great they do help when you are feeling down. Have a good cry when you need one as that helps too. All it is, is TIME. Its hard but it does get easier.

Answer 5

There is the balance of not denying that they are gone, and not dwelling on the fact that they are no longer with you. Allow yourself the time to grieve, but, at the same time, if you find yourself falling into self-pity, then get out and do something to get your mind off of it.

Three years ago this July 24, my wife and I lost both of our fathers (They died in two separate hospitals 45 miles apart, in a time span of less then two hours). We both allowed ourselves time to grieve for one, and then for the other, but also would get out and do things to stay active, so as not to let our depression overcome us. We know both of our fathers would not have wanted us to be sitting around moping, and I am sure your friend would have felt the same way.

Sorry about your loss. May God give you his comfort and strength during this time of your grief.

Answer 6

make a small scrapbook or photo album of pictures of your friend and you making memories and include a letter from you to your friend and include things like movie and concert tickets and all that cool stuff...it will help but only time will help you live with this situation...you never get over a death...

Answer 7

dont take like its a horror movie.stay calm and be relaxed u will make more Friends in no time.this is the way life is .u just have to take it. the rest of your life is history dont be this way forever it wont solve anything theres alot to come in your life so be happy and let your future life take it from there.

Answer 8

there is no easy way to get over somebody's death that is close to you just time will make it easier

Answer 9

Dont forget them but try to get them out of your memory 4 now

Answer 10

try to remember all the good times you had with that person.
My nephew was killed in a car accident a day before mothers day,it's tough !
Sorry about your loss !