I got this "so called friend"(I thought she was my friend) and I sit next to her at school. we often talked or laughed together in class but she always seemed strange to me. she was nice to me when we were alone but in front of others she was. it always annoyed me but she was always really nice again and I couldnt be mad at her.
but yesterday there was a party and I went there with a friend. then I saw her with her girls(who know me too). she asked me "what did you pay her(meaning my friend who was there with me) to come here with you? I got really mad at her but I couldnt do nothing because I dont beat little girls.
the next day i saw her at school and she noticed that I was mad at her but she didnt get why she said that it was only a joke and that other people had asked her that too and that she found it funny. then she apologized and begged me for about an hour to forgive her. so I finally did. but this "joke" is really not funny I bet you would have been offended too wouldnt you?
2006-07-03 10:25:37 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
lol no Im not bi
2006-07-03 10:58:38 · update #1
Yes, I'd be offended. It's hard when you're surrounded by people at school to stand up for what's right. Your friend decided not to stand up for you.
You have to stand up for yourself and know that you are worthy of friends who won't make fun of you.
The question is: do you love yourself enough to look for them? Or are you just going to settle for being with fake people?
People will only treat you how you let them treat you.
Start finding things to do that will help you find more people to hang out with, and then you won't feel like you have to stick with people who really don't like you. Do some after-school activities or volunteer someplace fun like an animal shelter.
In five years, you won't even remember those people.
2006-07-03 10:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by divinescribe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont want to offend you or any thing but I think that she is a BI and thinks you are too and is being nice to you alone and mean when there are other people around just to get attention.
2006-07-03 17:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by Kalygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is two faced and you should not have forgiven her because she will do it again. She is not a friend because she made fun of you. Tell her that if she does it again or if you even hear that she said something nasty about you, she will be very sorry. Scare the crap out of her.
2006-07-03 17:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be offended. I would stop being " friends " with her or whatever you two are ... cause it seems like she only wants to talk to you or be friends and hang out with you or whatever when nobody else is around.
2006-07-03 17:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry highschool girls are bad, she probely wanted to be cool in front of everyone I would just stay away from her who knows what more problems she will cause you. Ignore her
2006-07-03 17:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by Eve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just a typical highschool/collage BIATCH! She doesn't care about you nor other people. She is a fake, not a real friend. Probably deeply insecure too. Forget about her. :)
2006-07-03 17:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by KAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might have been a little offended but i would not have gotten that mad.
2006-07-03 17:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by carla_castillo34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very offended by that! I definately wouldn't speak to her again
2006-07-03 19:03:30 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new friend this one sounds a little like dr jekle and mr hyde
2006-07-03 17:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive her but do not stay friends, it sounds like she is going ot hurt you over and over and says that it was just a jock , you do not need those kind of jocks....
2006-07-03 17:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋