why do you ask us if you look fat? we can not answer, because if you do look fat we just cant say, wow hun your a$$ is looking fat in those shorts today. We can not say that because we know if we do there is no chance of us getting any later, Why do you put us in that situation, and if we say we like it. You change and ask again.
2006-07-03 10:20:04 · 9 answers · asked by mike67333 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ha Ha , its why we are called women. We can do this stuff.
you are called men because you cannot ever win.
2006-07-03 10:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's more of an insecurity thing, need for reassurance. Like when talking and all of a sudden a girl says, "Oh that girl's so pretty, I'm not etc." She wants you to say "No she's not you are". It's just a way to get around the insecurity and get reassurance that they are attractive. Women are never satisfied with their appearance, there is always something to improve.
2006-07-03 17:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls ask their GIRL friends that too!!
We do it because over the last few decades MEN insisted that all women look like Barbie! We wear pantyhose because it makes our legs look sexier for MEN. We wear tight clothes so all the MEN are pleased!!
The male driven sex industry (movies, advertisments, even fashion) has created an atmosphere of insecurity for all women who do not look like a supermodel!!
I laugh so much though... even the fat and smelly men insist that they must have the supermodel girl.
2006-07-03 17:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by donnam4863 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, I used to ask it because I was insecure in the way I looked, but my man soon put an end to that by always telling me that he loved the way I looked and didn't think I looked fat at all. He always said it until one day I believed him...and I totally don't care whether I look or fat or not because he loves the way I look....sound geeky? oh well....it is true.
2006-07-03 17:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by westie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh,what a difficult situation!!!
I am sorry,for implying you in it,and I promise I will do it again when I get the nerve!Asking about them,women try to make men see how they are!
But unfortunately the mission fails every time!
2006-07-03 17:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by faunpas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We ask that question because if you are dating us, that should mean you will deal with all of our flaws. If our butts do get a bit bigger you should be able to look at us and say "yes your butt has gotten bigger, but that doesnt bother me..your still beautiful".
2006-07-03 17:23:00 · answer #6 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls require affirmation and the only right answer is no, you don't look fat. You look great. Your affirmation allows them to live in their fantasy world where they can eat that extra twinkie and oh, its OK my boyfriend/husband thinks I look smokin
2006-07-03 17:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by Shebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women want to be constantly reassured they are attrative to opposite sex. There is nothing wrong with the Q
2006-07-03 17:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by exoticncurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we like to make you suffer!
2006-07-03 17:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by Janet K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋