I've known my current BF sicne when i was 12, we didn't start dating until i was19.
We've known each other for so long b/c he is the son of my dads frat brother. when we i was about 17 and he was a sophmore in college thats when we really started to "get to know each other".
when i was 19 we went into a full relationship and have dated ever since.
So now, I'm 21 and will be 22 on the 1st, and he's 25.
He got into a car accident a few months ago and was SO close to dying, but i was there at the hospital with him almost every waking minute. He's alive and well now. Last week we celebrated his 25th bday and he told me that he wants to be only with me, and once i've graduated next year he wants to permenatly commit, or if legal get married. He told me to take my time.
I Know i love him, but I'm scared. But he's like my soulmate i doubt ill meet someone else who sexy, good in bed, successful, knows me better than anyone else, and is mentally sane. think I'll be ready by then??
2006-07-03 10:08:34 · 8 answers · asked by Smart.a$$ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Note: I'm Bi and my parents REALLY dont know. And if I do marry another man wont ppl automatically label me as gay?
2006-07-03 10:13:29 · update #1
do what your heart tells you to do. don't mind what other people will say. whether you are bi or gay doesn't really matter to other people. what matters is your own life and happiness. do what makes you happy. good luck. cheers!
2006-07-03 15:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fancy finding your question up here nephew!!
Look, I'm gonna tell you like i told you before!!
Derrek is Damn perfect for you, and you may NEVER find anyone else like him. (Not to mention that boy is a fine piece of ***, an if i was 20 years younger and single OOOO!!!)
But do what ever makes you happy, but if you let this one go someone else will get him!!
2006-07-03 18:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that. A million people can tell you he is a great guy, but in the end, it is you that has to determine that and live with it.
2006-07-03 17:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you marry another man, they might think you are either gay or bi. But as for marriage, do it for love, or don't do it at all.
2006-07-09 16:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by Out $1000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love him and he truly loves you then why rush it ? Wait until you know for sure. Just be open and honest with him. Good luck.
2006-07-03 17:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by Brian M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and tell him how you feel about everything,and if you love him you shouldn't care what other people think
2006-07-03 17:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by BIG MOMMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't commit too young.
2006-07-03 17:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything until you are sure that's what you really want.
2006-07-03 17:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by Danger, Will Robinson! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋