are saying about you behind your back, would you click the button?
What is said behind a person's back is usually mean but usually true.
2006-07-03 10:07:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yes, I would. I would want to know what people think of me.
2006-07-03 10:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by ladysodivine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I train myself not to pay mind to what people say about me behind my back. My mental is strong enough to sense not the words but the feeling associated with the words. There is a time that you have to drop the heavy baggages. Cut loose the non-productive or negative relationships and they will be replaced by people up to par in your life. I believe that negative association holds you from blooming."What they said is usually true" Understand that each of us has a dark page not well written and we can only wish that it was not part of the book. So, what I do not know about you Mr./Mrs. Goody, someone else knows the whole story. I meet people and look forward to the good, positive traits they reveal but not the petty things that once they had in their life.
2006-07-03 17:38:22 · answer #2 · answered by alpha & omega 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i only call myself neurotic41, if i were to waste time listening in to what some people say about me then i would never get anything done and i would be a neurotic mess. i am a straight shooter and i believe i telling you how i feel to your face. i have also had the fortunate or unfortunate experiences with people who give me the same consideration.
2006-07-03 17:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank goodness no such button exists.
I probably would be tempted to push it but I know I'll just be hurt by the things people might say about me.
2006-07-03 17:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not interesting enough to have things said about me behind my back.
2006-07-09 03:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by mRNA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"What I dont know wont hurt me!?!" You can never please everybody even if you try... so inevitably there could be some things that might be said against you...why bother to know...Life is too complicated and you can put your energy on the more essential things in life than listen to what others say...
2006-07-03 21:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by suburbanmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No actually I would not want to push the button.
Some things are better left unsaid.
2006-07-03 17:14:15 · answer #7 · answered by Steven B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO because what i hear them say is going to affect who i am around them , i would not be able to be myself, so to me , it would be like letting other people define who i am or who i want to be .
2006-07-03 20:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by You're just .......... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah! I'd want to know who my true friends are! Scary thought ,though. What if no one was saying anything nice? Hmmm.........
2006-07-03 17:16:20 · answer #9 · answered by court 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no....other people opinion are insignificant...if these people have something constructive to say they are welcome to do so in front of me. going behind my back obviously involve something not true....
2006-07-03 22:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋