ok, so i just took a trip to minnesota with my friend S.. we left our friend A at home... were not sure how to break it to A that we went without her.. we all went last time, but this time i only took S.. we dont want to hurt A, but we also just have to tell her.. any suggestions?
2006-07-03 10:03:23 · 3 answers · asked by helenagd123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell A that you would like to take a 1 on 1 trip with her the next time. Tell her that you missed her on the trip, but are looking forward to some 1 on 1 time with her soon.
hope you brought her a nice souviener back!
2006-07-03 10:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by retta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can only hope you have a good reason for making the decision you made. A "just because" isn't going to work here. And if you DON'T have a good reason, then prepare yourself for losing her as a friend. (And don't make up one - because she will sense it if it is false.) If you didn't want to hurt her, you probably should have dealt with this before the trip. All this time she thought the three of you were the merry trio and now she is going to find out that she is second-best to your friend "S" --- not much reason for her to hang around a feel like the third wheel from now on.
2006-07-03 17:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you leave ex-friend at home?
2006-07-03 17:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋