I wanted my fiancee to get a one of those erotic massages the ones that have a happy ending.(hand job or a bj) either one it doesn't matter. I was wondering has any men ever got one and how much does it cost? I know most of my girlfriends think i am crazy for doing this but i just want to fufill his fantasy since he has fufilled all mines. and bought this huge platinum engagement ring.
2006-07-03 09:28:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey, very cool present. You are very open minded. Look to spend about $2-300.00 in Vegas for what you want, if not up to 5. By the way, if your comfortable with this, who cares what your friends think, you know the strength of your relationship better then anyone else.
2006-07-03 09:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You love your fiance and want to make him happy, right? Well, why not fulfill his fantasy rather by giving him an erotic massage yourself - on your wedding night? There are good books on erotic massage out there, with illustrations and all.
I really cannot see introducing a third party into your relationship in this way. This is supposed to be a permanent, exclusive commitment you are undertaking. No option to break up, no option to be with anyone else(*).
Please take your relationship seriously and do not put your fiance to the test like this. I know people whose relationships have been wrecked by the presence of a third party in ways far more innocuous even than an erotic massage (among other things, this is how I ended up with a stepmother). Please be warned and do the right thing.
May God bless you
2006-07-03 16:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
d*amn i would never do any thing like that if he wants a bj or a hand job ill do it myself. im not ganna let some (hooker) touch my man. it doesnt matter how much he spent on the ring, are you not worth it? and if he is putting pressure on you to do this then he more then likely wont be very faithful in the future. hun i dont advise you to do that. if he wants oral or a palmer from you the do it youll only get better in the long run.
2006-07-03 16:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by Crimson_Skies 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
And your getting married???????
Sad is right. You and your fiance have a completely distorted view of what a marriage is. Not all fantasies are meant to be fulfilled. I don't believe that your relationship will ever be better in the long run for having "done"this for him. Good luck and good sense.
2006-07-03 16:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by bluucantuinashoe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is a bad idea, give him an erotic massage with a bj yourself.
2006-07-03 16:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant get the job done for him or he just cant stop thinking about other women that's sad you probably need to think about what you are doing especially since you are going to marry this guy i don't care what kind of bling bling i got not worth some ho touching my man in any way
2006-07-03 16:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by winter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK. OK. you buy some sensual message oils at the local XXX store. read up on message as much as possible, and make him as happy as can be. I am sure he would appreciate that more than someone else if there is true love there...
2006-07-03 16:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by CosmicCruiser 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No ring is worth losing your self respect!! His fantasies should include you, not exclude you. While I can understand you wanting to fulfill his fantasy, cheating should never be a fantasy.
2006-07-03 16:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by hippiemommy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are going to be the best wife ever!
2006-07-03 16:33:17 · answer #9 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Platinum, huh? I better start saving my pennies...
2006-07-03 16:32:34 · answer #10 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋