What you're experiencing is called "premature ejaculation." It is quite common and usually not cause for concern, however, an appointment with an urologist may be wise.
Most methods of treatment involve stimulating the genitals, stopping when the sensation of orgasm is imminent, and then resuming stimulation once the sensation has passed. Over time, with repetition, you will become accustom to delaying climax.
As for your second question, anal stimulation is a normal, healthy aspect of sexuality. Precautions of safety and cleanliness should be taken. Only use objects that are of reasonable size and have absolutely no sharp edges. Covering the object with a condom is recommended. The rectum contains very high numbers of normal bacteria and upsetting this balance can make you ill, so you do not want to introduce bacteria that do not belong there.
Another important precaution is to use an object that cannot get "lost." The rectum, unlike the female vagina, is a continuous tube and smaller objects can enter too far and become irretrievable, requiring a visit to a physician. The best way to avoid this is to use objects with a flared base that cannot easily enter.
Additionally, the use of lubricant is important as the rectum does not produce enough mucus for adequate lubrication. If using condoms or latex objects, avoid petroleum based lubricants because they can damage latex, causing it to break.
2006-07-03 09:58:35
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answered by Jen Diamond 2
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One of the reasons is that there is a small muscle in you butt that actually controls the flow of your body waste that go through penis. Basically I'm talking about the one you use to stop peeing before you're even done. If you "flex" that muscle and hold it for a couple of seconds everyday, you will eventually be able to control your ejaculation. If you pay a little more attention you'll see that as you have more sex and try not to ejaculate you're basically training that muscle and throughout time it gets stronger. Another reason is that if you're a virgin and it is you're first time having sex, it's completely natural.
2016-03-27 02:40:07
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answered by Irene 4
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If you ejaculate within 30 seconds, you're probably pumping your penis really hard and fast. True, this can be very pleasurable at times, but a longer-lasting masturbation session can be fun, too. Try pumping a little slower and less forcefully. If you start to feel like you're going to ejaculate, stop pumping. Also, try playing with your balls for a few minutes while you wait for your penis to simmer down or just stop touching yourself completely and just think about sexy things. That usually works for me.
As for sticking things up your anus, I think it's normal. That area contains many pleasure-sensing nerve endings. Just be sure that it's clean before you start playing with it. If you're not, it can lead to an infection. Also, be gentle. You don't want to tear anything.
So, now that I've given you these tips, enjoy yourself! Hopefully, your sexual experience should be more enjoyable now!
2006-07-03 16:38:25
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answered by Anonymous
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30 seconds might be a little quicker than normal, but you can always stop stroking when you feel an orgasm coming, then start again after the feeling subsides.
As far as sticking "stuff" up your butt, I would reccomend against it. Remember that anywhere inside your body is a sterile enviroment, inserting things that aren't sterile is taking a big risk of infection. Besides, the anus was designed as "Exit Only."
2006-07-03 09:28:21
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answered by mgrenia 3
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Sticking stuff up your **** ain't going to slow you down.
Just make sure that there's enough left outside to extract it with; hospital staff have heard all the "I slipped in the shower" stories from people with artifacts up their arses and won't believe yours.
2006-07-03 11:53:25
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answered by Dondare 4
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God your're a HORNDOG!!!!!! Yea I guess it's K to get stuff up there I know some dudes that like it (as long as it's not another dude's thing)
2006-07-03 09:22:02
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answered by anna 2
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Pull a bit slower!
2006-07-03 09:32:22
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answered by Ken Hartley-Reed 2
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Permanently Stop Premature Ejaculation Tonight - http://EjaculationTrainerGuide.com/?QLoS
2016-03-31 21:51:16
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answered by ? 3
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Just relax and enjoy it
2006-07-03 09:45:14
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answered by Judas Rabbi 7
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yeah your odd..... try letting your dog put his tounge up your A@# and c if u like that. you r such a freak!!!!
2006-07-03 09:28:10
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answered by addisonashton 1
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