Ladies, quid pro quo?

Question

show you mine if you show me yours, your thoughts that is, what makes you choose Mr X over Mr Y.

Why am I asking? I haven't been without a partner for very long over the last ten years, soon to be 30. My relationships get shorter, I usually break them off because I lose interest in the woman (this is quid pro quo not fluff right). Am thinking about a longer term parter, someone special I'll remain really attracted to.

What attracts me in a woman, in one word, is grace. A woman who is not afraid to express her feelings without being clingy and insecure, who's intelligent (I find this very sexy) but not so cerebral as to be cold. Feminine without being stereotypical

Playful with a cheeky sense of humour

Babo, it does- that was the quid pro quo, but why are you asking me if you are telling me to lighten up for asking this question ; )
Because, we all want to know don't we, regardless of our gender, and regardless of how lightly we take it from time to time.

I agree about the clicking part- ahh

Answer 1

I choose Mr. X over Mr. Y because something "clicks". There is either an attraction (not just physical) or there isn't. I wish I could explain it better than that, then I would have the secret of all life!

Answer 2

Mr X stands out. He does something spectacular that Mr Y can't do or didn't think of doing.
Quid pro Quo: Why are you asking?

Answer 3

You really ought to lighten up and live alittle.
I would rather have a few good lifelong friends than be with any man who will eventually make me feel inadequate. You know your question does go both ways. What do women like in a man?

Answer 4

I believe what you put out is what you get in return...you can list all the things that you want in a person, at the same time you gotta have the same or the kind of qualities in you that would attract the type of woman you desire.....