I got introduced to this guy online by a friend of mine, he knows him but i dont, we have been chatting on msn for about 6 months now and we got along really well...we can have great jokes and share a lot of personal problems with one another - i have also found that i am a real influence on him because i persuaded him to give up something...
thing is, we always seem to be prone to silly pointless arguments, i hate them and so does he - but i dont know why they actually come up! we both think it is clash of character but then, how come we get along so well too? just cant understand it, i dont think its to do with attraction because he told me that he loves another girl, i just cant understand it - has anyone got any ideas why this is?
i am not an argumentative person and nor is he, but we seem to end up arguing and then the next day, we start chatting again...
2006-07-03 09:08:53 · 12 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
a lot of arguements go bad because people either want to get their right or because they end up insulting (lightly to badly) eachother rather than to counter eachothers words.
If you sense an arguement coming up to which you know you can't convince eachother, just accept and respect that you have different opinions and change topic :)
2006-07-03 19:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by wijnha01 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are both being yourselves, which is a good thing in a relationship, but I know that love can born out of constant communication, so I think you both have feelings for one another, but as you said he is seeing someone else, so you don't jump in, why don't you indirectly chat about love see whether he is going to involve the one he is in love with, and chat about her to see how he reacts, this will indicate is direction, but always remember to be yourself at all times, hope this helps
2006-07-03 16:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by real_man_1122 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its the nature of msn because my daughter is always getting into arguments on msn but then she sees these people out at the mall or wherever and they get along great. So try talking to him face to face and see what happens
2006-07-03 16:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by Bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is how i was with my boyfriend before we got together but there was no girl it was the problem that he was acting like he didnt want a gf but he didnt no i liked him and i didnt no he liked me, i was always startin arguments wit him becuz i felt like i couldnt have him and it drove me crazy and jealous so i started arguments all the time. mayb you guys are always arguing because you hate the fact that he loves another girl and you cannot have him, and mayb he is lyin about loving another girl because he doesnt know you like him. it is all becuase of sometimes that gets you mad and you go off on him, its ok to feel that way just dont pass the line. whatever happens good luck and always SMILE! :) i hope i helped you.
2006-07-03 16:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know arguments are stupid. They happen because people dont agree with each other, and they both think they are the correct ones, so they keep on lashing out another thing untill one of them is proven wrong and the other is proven right with victory.
Just like war, isnt it?
2006-07-03 16:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you are two very different people with differing opinions.
I do think that there is some form of attraction there or you wouldn't continue to chat on-line with each other. The nit picking is just that its two people with two different opinions. I think its harmless and your worrying too much. I think that he likes talking to you or he wouldn't keep coming back.
2006-07-03 16:18:25 · answer #6 · answered by rottenkid4560 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arguements happen for a couple of reasons. The two biggest reasons being that not everyone thinks the same way as everyone else, and the other being that something is not heard or is missinterpretted.
2006-07-03 16:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I know damn well is that arguments is also a way of life.Everybody argues no matter how close they are or how they have the same views on different matters.
2006-07-03 16:18:12 · answer #8 · answered by Deejay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is up and down and we all have differences. you've shared personal problems after only 6 months? too early. you say he's with another girl..he's having the rows with you so he can have his cake and eat it then. you're being used!
2006-07-03 17:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arguments can be caused by stress. deep down u prob have feeling for each other but just not letting on.talk to him and ask him does he and also ask urself the same question.
2006-07-03 16:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by darren.graham01@btinternet.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋