2006-07-03 08:50:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she obviously has no respect for her self
2006-07-03 08:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is depressing.
However, it's not the end of the world.
Just live life like your single.
Don't let that ring and the title "wife" tell you who you are.
Do what you've always done for fun.
That butthead just gave you a limitless credit card for reckless behavior.
Go out to the clubs.
See strippers.
Buy sex toys and leave them carelessly around the home area.
Subscribe to men screwing other men magazine and leave it out in the open too.
Just because you are a wife doesn't mean who you are as a woman doesn't exist.
So he's having a "meaningless" fling....SO WHAT!!
It only means you get to do whatever you want now whether he knows or not.
Your avatar is so cute, it's cute enough to also have a meaningful fling with 2 guys at the same time.
2006-07-03 16:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is asking for a whole lot of trouble and will have a deep seeded resentment forever...may even have a fling herself...marriage is a committment not a fly by night relationship. Why get married if anyone wants "flings".
2006-07-03 16:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she has no self confidence and no respect for herself. I think she is a fool and that her husband is going to keep wanting more and more so called meaningless flings. Any time you let someone do something you know is wrong, they will turn it around into it must be right because you let them do it.
2006-07-03 15:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally not healthy for a relationship and will build resentment. Would your husband let you do the same? Most likely not. Unless you have a very open relationship which I assume you do not since you are asking the question dont do it, nothing good can come out of it.
2006-07-03 16:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by the_flogged_dog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she should. Why is she getting married in the first place? Because you love and trust each other? If thats the case then no fling should happen. If she lets him it will be there between them always.
2006-07-03 15:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by KyStar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupid wife.
Insecure wife.
Low self-esteem wife.
The only thing that is "meaning less" is the wife...she means NOTHING to him.
By the way - I hope the wife doesn't end up with a sexually transmitted disease after said husband screws another chick.
Good luck!
2006-07-03 15:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by docscholl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's encouraging her husband to disrespect her and treat her like she's nothing because she thinks he's the only man in the world for her.
2006-07-03 15:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i think she is so gullible and wont have a husband soon. he will elave and find some one that is strong and willing to be there for him. she cant do that right now and she will loose her man.
2006-07-03 15:58:52 · answer #9 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A doormat
2006-07-03 15:55:41 · answer #10 · answered by mxamy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a good idea at all. its never meaningless, it always has some kind of underlying meaning. it will ruin the marriage!
2006-07-03 16:02:57 · answer #11 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋