2006-07-03 08:46:57 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Only if it is work related and his presence is required.
A social event is obviously designed for both people and no the husband should not attend without his wife.
I think its getting to easy for people to say they are married but want to act like they are single. Afterall, wasnt he there when the kids were conceived?
2006-07-03 08:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I would say yeah depending on what type of a party it was.And he be the babysitter at the next party for you to go without your husband.As long as the 2 havent given each other reasons not to trust the other. Trusting the other is a big importants in a relationship.Once the trust is broken it really effects the relationship.
2006-07-03 08:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by little district girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the party and what the situation is..
for example.. I went to a wedding this weekend for one of my co-workers, and another co-worker of mine couldn't find a sitter for his son,... everyone in the office knows his girlfriend/wife (on the furge of being wife) but they have a kid together.. and he tried finding a sitter.. I even helped him.. but we couldn't find anyone..
he still went to the wedding, and went to the reception.. not sure if he did anything I don't know hwy he would.. he has a wife.. but what I am trying to say is... she was really cool and laid back about it...
another thing is.. ONCE YOU HAVE KIDS>.. you cant' always go out together.. sometimes you can go together and sometimes alone.. TRUST would be the key word... an dif you doubted for a second that something would happen with out you knowing.. then maybe you need to re-evaluate your relationship.. but it happens and all you can say is.. "i am fine with it" or "you know.. I wanted us to do the party together.. can you just stay home please" HIS response would actually have given you your answer.....
so the questiun is.. is it appropriate.. well that depends on the couple and the situation.. so that is the answer.... not what others think for you...
2006-07-03 08:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by duhblondeone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the wife is okay with it then yes. The husband could take turns going to the party and watching the children. If the wife isnt okay, then how about having parties at your house. Or going to
child-appropriate parties where there are other children there.
2006-07-03 08:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long and the next time there is no babysitter the wife gets to go out and the husband stays home.
2006-07-03 08:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by pumkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on who's throwing the party. if the husband's friend is throwing the party and the host is close to the family, they will probably understand, and the husband shouldn't stay too long. if its a formal dinner party or something, and the host isn't too familiar with the family, then it might not be appropriate for him to go alone. also, think about if its going to be all couples, or if its just a regular whoever comes kind of party.
2006-07-03 08:50:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if the wife doesn't mind (Who wouldn't mind?) and if the party is going tobe vapid and boring to the point of death. And even if it isn't, when he returns he should say that the party was really boring, and many of the people he thought would be coming didn't come;-)
If it is a business type of a party, he can go alone, butnot if it is a friend/family party
2006-07-03 08:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by shrek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on whose party it is.
I need more detail! If my husband was really good friends with a man who was having a b-day party or something or getting married, and we couldn't find a sitter, I wouldn't expect him not to go. If it was a work function, yes. If a single, female co-worker was having the party, he wouldn't want to go without me.
I trust him, that's why I married him... are there deeper issues?
2006-07-03 08:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by Bethany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who is holding the party and what type of party it is. If it is a business or office party then absolutely. If it is a party to celebrate something for a good friend of his this is also acceptable. If it is a party for mutual friends or a dinner party then I believe it is inappropriate.
2006-07-03 08:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by Patrick B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well only if he doesnt have a designated driver but a real husband in my opinon would over to stay home with his wife and opt for some quailty time watching movies curled up in the bed or couch enjoying each other than running out with his freinds cause what is good for the goose is good for the gander and if yours did that call your girls and have a night out on the town and let him stay home.
2006-07-03 08:51:36 · answer #10 · answered by brina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋