2006-07-03 08:45:29 · 13 answers · asked by mjwilliams2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Whether you can or not isn't the issue. You're in a committed relationship and you need to focus on strengthening the bonds of that relationship.
You'd better resolutely decide that you're going to make the woman you're currently married to, the love of your life, or you will be back here expressing your diluted love for TWO ex -wives.
2006-07-03 08:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple. If you continue to love your ex-wife you do not truly love your current wife. If you are unwilling to give your current wife your unconditional love she does not need you. Do your current wife a favor and divorce her so she can find someone who truly loves her and respects her. She deserves much better than you.
2006-07-03 15:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by C.B. M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot control your heart. Although loving 2 women is considered legally taboo, but this is a man's nature. A man seldom satisfies by one woman. Married or in love or not, man will always think about other woman. Yes, a man can love two women. Its nature. Although its wrong. You may think about other woman but you must stay within boundries. Good Luck
2006-07-03 15:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by aamirabbas_pk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can but who do you the most your ex or your wife you should go with who ever you love the most.
2006-07-03 15:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi I dont belive that oyu can be in love wit more than one person I feel that the right person is just waiting for you and when you find that person and fall in love deep and hard then it will only happen once so you might think your in love with one which ever one that is but you have made a choice you just need to listen too your heart and go with that.
2006-07-03 15:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by shawty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!that is something terrible...cause marriage is something u should take seriously is not like u give a step like that...
I will have more question for you to answer in order to guide u...
The answer to ur question depends on how many time past between your ex now and starting with the one u call ur wife NOW???Did u married her cause you felt like the right time in ur lfe or cause u felt lonely???
Could it be that u acted out of impulse or advice by friends and family on marrying this person? Do you still have a relationship with ur ex????could it be that ur ex fullfilled u more and ur wife is just tlc???Were you allways thinking and comparing ur wife to be with ur ex back then???
If u answer yes to most of this question
u made a big mistake in not finishing emotionally with one and starting with a new one...u transgress ur feelings of one to the other ...and now ur seeing and experience the consequences...TOTAL CONFUSSION...marrying someone is something serious...but loving someone else before, during and after that marriage is even more serious...
Thank god u said in your question that "u love ur wife"...but cant stop thinking about ur ex....
I think right there is ur answer. u love ur wife...the other one, ur x is just a MEMOIR...THAT LIVE in ur mind...like when we loose a love one thru dead...physically there not in our life anymore but they were once, now they livet in our mind...keep her there..sooner or later the memory would be a more distant one..
But if u look for her and let her look for u, and plus that u fantasize about her...ull be hurting urself and ur wife...and if she also have feelings 4u...ull be the cause of many peoples sadness...thats something u have to stop if is happening...
Comparing people and thinking about the x person and x relationship is a sword of 2 edges....cause u tend to idealize the
x person and relationship...and the one u have now is the real
one, and u dnt do the same cause ur living it, so do that live what have to live in the present without looking back in ur past, and torturing ur mind with thoughts of something that is not part
of ur life anymore...
Im in the other part of the ring/ I think one of my exes is probably like u...he havent tell me...a thing....but if he ask me or tell me...
how he feels...about me...
Ill be honest and tell him, that I have cero feelings for him...as a man...I see him as a friend...but if that is confusing him I will stand back...for his own good...because u cant be love with 2 people...not in a couple level.
2006-07-03 16:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by know it all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe you can be in love with two people.
2006-07-03 15:51:52 · answer #7 · answered by Shebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you may feel that you love them both but you can only truly love one person. maybe theres something there still w/ your ex.
2006-07-03 15:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by adeleighernandez26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can and do love them both, but who do you think of when you think MUTUAL commitment? Best wishes.
2006-07-03 15:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by Dreamer-T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can love somebody but be IN love with somebody else.
2006-07-03 15:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋