a female friend of mine (27) has been dating this guy (23) for about 2 years on and off. they've broken up a couple times before for a couple months, usually because she they aren't happy together. then they get back together cuz they miss each other. so they have been back together for a few months and now she is having a lot of issues with him again.
example: he went out of town with his buddies to a music festival for the weekend and basically told her that she wasn't invited.
then he called her at 2pm while he was out of town but didn't call for the rest of the night. she called him many times but he never answered and said it was because his phone is messed up. (which it is. it was run over by a car or something.)
she was upset because she says she's tired of dealing with him. she was about to pack up his stuff and throw it out of her apt. (which he stays at and doesn't pay rent).
he is a good guy, but they always seem to be arguing about something. what do u think?
2006-07-03 08:39:38 · 6 answers · asked by musikalgrl20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They are not on the same maturity level, there is nothing wrong with the way he is acting, it's normal for a guy his age, she is trying to change him when he is not ready for it. Seeing as she is the older one, she needs to be more understanding of this, if she can't be, then she needs to find someone who is on her level. She is not being fair, she knows how old he is and she should have know what she was getting into.
2006-07-03 08:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some relationships just aren't meant to be. It sounds like they have a connection but just aren't able to make a relationship work. I think she is doing the right thing but she needs to make sure this is really the end and not get back with him a few months from now or she will never be able to move forward in her life. Right now it is like she is in the movie groundhog day and reliving this relationship over and over.
2006-07-03 15:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they should go their separate ways and move on with their lives, because this was an on and off issue going on, and nothing seems to work. Besides, if I were in her shoes, I would feel very depressed and angry about my relationship, because it takes a lot of time, effort, and commitment just to love someone new. They could go to counseling or therapy, but they should let it go.
2006-07-03 15:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes using her for a place to live. She needs to get rid of his immature *** and find a man thats closer to her age. Im 30 and there is no way id date a guy under 28-29 they havent grown up yet and been made to accept responsibility for their actioins.
2006-07-03 15:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think they would be better friends (if possible) then bf and gf because they are always at eachothers throats (it seems) so if they were friends they wouldn't be arguing all the timetell youre friend good luck with whatever her choice*_*
2006-07-03 15:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by savvy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this relationship is obviously a un-healthy one. if i were her, i would leave for good. breaking up and getting back together is a sign of something not working.
2006-07-03 15:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by adeleighernandez26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋