im 16, my boyfriend 17 almost 18. i live with my grandma and i'm verbally abused everyday. they put me in couseling because i skipped school and had sex. i've been dating my boyfriend for a lil over a year...and yes.....im going to marry him. his parents want me out of this house and so do i. they want me to live with them and my boyfriend....and so do i. but my dad has custody of me, and he lives an hour away. how do i get out of here...the easy way? is there an easy way?
2006-07-03 08:38:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
... i'd want to move too.. but you stick it out 2more years. bury yourself in school work,[you dont have much more time to do that] easy on the sex.[ you have plenty of time for that later].. i KNOW 2 years seems long now.. but when you look back on it 10 years from now you'll see staying in school, and waiting a little longer to grow up was the right thing to do.. and throughout your life thats what you will have to do ..."THE RIGHT THING" the more often you do that , the SOONER you start doing that , the better FOUNDATION you will have for a HAPPY LIFE... please listen to me on this one , ong jon.. i know what i'm talking about here. p.s. you should think about another name,"koolpsycho".. there is nothing cool about being a psycho.. you are who you say you are .. try showing a little self esteem before you move out into the real world...."koolpsycho"??? you'll be lucky you get a job at mcdonalds w/ an attitude like that..... try "selfrespect" or "1finewoman" something that show the good you feel about yourself... even "tryinghard" is a step up..people care about you.. do you care about you? you should just the fact that your" fighting to stay alive" shows me you got something going on... do the right thing here.. patients is a virtue
2006-07-03 08:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by ong jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you are still a baby, since you are only 16, i do not think it is a good relationship if you skip school to have sex but i am not going to tell you what to do. if you are in lust with this boy at 16 and think you are going to still be with him when you are 60 then that is awsome but if i were you i would get into a sport and get more involved in school and not your boyfriend. Talk to your dad about the abusive relationship you have with your grandma and tell him that you do not feel comfortable living with someone that makes you feel terrible about yourself an tell him that you feel your live is in harm if you stay with her and he might listen to you but dont act like a little kid and whine cause then he wont listen talk to him in a calm and firm voice
2006-07-03 15:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by Andi_253 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 16 and you already know who you are going to marry? Sounds like you just want to get out of your house. I think you are rushing into something that you are going to regret in the future. Why don't you just hold on for another two years. Two years is only a small amount of time when you think about your whole life.
2006-07-03 15:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by meisa777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, if you're a smart girl, then you should really think of the consequence if you move out. we all had been through what you're experiencing. don't be haste. just think about it.
2006-07-03 15:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋