help my mom?

Question

my mom thinks my sis it to young to date she is 13 and has a 15 year old bf and they want to go to the movies

i'm 15 going on 16

Answer 1

Why not offer to go with her (your little sister)? That way you mum will feel a bit safer knowing that you are with her and you can invite some friends, then when they get to the movies, sit in a different row/area from them so they can have a bit of privacy.

If you are close with your little sister, make sure you take some time to talk to her about dating and sex and let her know that this boy is a older than her and if she is not ready to do anything more than go to the movies and hold hands with this guy, that she shouldnt be rushed or forced.

By opening up communications with her now and offereing to help her, you will build a better bond with your sister. Your mother will thank you for keeping a close eye on her, and when/if something comes up like sex, your little sister will already have someone to turn to for advice/help.

Dont choose sides however, if your mother is firm behind what she says, then let your mum know that you feel that she may be being a little to protective, but that you understand her feelings. Then let your little sister know that although mum said no, it wont be no forever, and she will be able to date soon.

Answer 2

If your mom says no, then the answer is no. And if I were you I'd be calling up my brother to come take care of the guy who's with her. he's 15. Why is he with a 13 year old? That's 10th and 7th or 8th grade. HS and middle school. At that age, that's a big age difference.

But you can't change your mother's mind. I think she's right.

Answer 3

i would say it depends on how of a mature 13yr old she is and as long as she hasnt done anything to bad before it would be best to give her a chance.because if she doesnt there might be a good chance she rebelles. my dad was very strict with me i had three older brothers who were treated different eventually i did rebelle started sneaking out and i had never gave him a reason to not trust me up til that.but try to see it in your moms eyes too now i have a daughter and i understand a liitle why he was like that talk to your mom and asure her everything will be ok and make sure it is do the right thing and she wont have so many worrys as long as you come home when your suppose to and all that good stuff

Answer 4

Nothing is wrong with a 13 yr old having a boyfriend. Tell ur mom set certain reasonable limits and she's good 2 go. She should trust her child. How about suggesting a double date with u & ur bf? How old r u?

Answer 5

She isn't too young to date, she is however too young to be getting involved with someone that age. I remember being 15 most guys that age only want one thing, and girls that young will do anything to fit in. Maybe if you go along to make sure things don't get out of hand but not alone. But don't let your Mom go either, that's just lame, and everyone knows it.

Answer 6

All of you are too young to date. No one should date until they are 16.

Answer 7

Your mom knows whats best.... kids are doing adult things, younger and younger.....its scary....it truly is. Yuor mom isnt being a control freak, she is just protecting your sis , is all!!! I have a friend who just found out her teeneage daughter is pregnant, and she had TALKS with both her daughter, nd the BF, and they promised nothing was going to happen, and now she is pregnant. Its a very scary thing for a parent, hard to understand for a teen, but HONESTLY, your mom is just trying to do whats best!! Give your mom a break ok.

Answer 8

that is young. and i'm 15 going onto 16 to and i'm still not allowed to date

Answer 9

Tell your mom you'll go with your sis and bf she'll feel more comfortable so it's called courting who cares

Answer 10

thats too young she cant wait until shes 16 or 17 goin out