you crush on someone and u tell them u like them but they didn't like u back that happened to me because i listened to people on here
2006-07-03 08:30:27 · 27 answers · asked by Honeybun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We can only give suggestions. It's up to you to make your own decisions. Since you are listening to people, can I get you to order something on EBay for me?
2006-07-03 09:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sad. Why the heck would you trust complete strangers to make decisions for you when they don't know you or all your circumstances??? This is an ok place to get some input, maybe, but YOU have to make the decisions that affect your life because YOU have to live with the results! You have no clue who the people are that answer these, and since they don't know you they don't CARE about the outcome! If you need to talk things over, go to a real, live friend or a family member. Guard your heart yourself - only you can, and don't trust strangers!
2006-07-03 08:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can hurt a lot when you like someone and they don't like you back. But that's life and just the way things are. It isn't fair of you to blame the folks here because you decided to take their advice. Advice is always freely given. If you choose to take and follow the advice, then you are also choosing to accept any consequences that might go along with it. Please keep that in mind before blaming a person or people for a consequence that ocurred because you chose to take the advice.
2006-07-03 08:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always best to be honest with someone when you tell that person your feelings. Don't feel bad because that person doesn't feel the same way about you. How does this person know he or she will not like you if they don't put forth the effort to find out? It has nothing to do with you. You should instead be proud of yourself for having the courage and conviction to tell this person how you felt. In all probability, by dismissing this person and moving on with your life you will find someone much better in the future. It is his loss, not yours. There is no reason for you to lose your self-respect over this issue. There is no reason for you to feel inferior in any way. Perhaps, in the future, this person will regret his or her decision to ignore you. Be yourself and you will be rewarded in the future with someone who loves you for who you are. Don't substitute a lifetime of happiness for a temporary relationship.
2006-07-03 08:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by C.B. M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a hard part of life. Not everyone you like is going to have the same feelings for you back. You have got to be able to say, Hey maybe next time. It will hurt for a short time but let it stop you from finding that right guy for you...be more self confident!
2006-07-03 08:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The laws of average happen in here too. Most people who are "giving" answers are about 13-25. You chose to act on our advice. Sorry, but one question is not really a good way of acting a certain way.
2006-07-03 08:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats life dude... I want to make more money, but just because I go and tell my boss I deserve more money, doesn't mean he will give it to me. If you had not told this person, you would never know what would have happend. Now, you can move on and find the person you were destined to be with:)
2006-07-03 08:35:50 · answer #7 · answered by lil am_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have done better than me. I like someone and I never act on it so I never know if they like me back or not. You do. So you can move on knowing you have done something instead of nothing. I'm sure you are embarrassed, but that feeling will go away. Not doing something never goes away.
2006-07-03 08:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by Mommy Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And so you're offended? The person was honest with you. And now you know where you stand. So move on, and dont give it a 2nd thought. It's not the end of the world. You'll encounter many disappointments. That's called LIFE....Which teaches us how to cope. :)
2006-07-03 08:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It 'probly feels like crap, but why are you asking people who don't know you or him?? Why didn't you ask your friends, or your family first.
Believe it or not, I'm not a psychiatrist, and I'm guessing alot of others on here 'probly aren't either.
Suck it up, move on, wipe your nose, and start looking for someone whos crushing on u!!!
Or just decide men suck, and be by yourself for awhile....
2006-07-03 08:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by dmkharleychic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋