i'm a guy and i'm 17 my gf wants 2 take our relationship a level up more like 2 levels i am keen on it coz i really trust her we been 2gether since infant skool but i jus need ur advice to go ahead or u know. oh btw when i mean a level up i mean sex
2006-07-03 08:27:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Don't have sex with her if you're going to leave her if she gets pregnant. If you're not ready to be a father, don't have sex! It can happen to you even if you are using protection.
2006-07-03 08:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jennilee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u need to consider is that all relationships are based on trust and honesty, if you feel you are ready to take you're relationship to the next level you should, however if you are uncomfortable with the situation you should discuss it further with you're partner as communication is the best way forward on having a successful relationship, hope this advise is of some help.
2006-07-08 12:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask strangers to give you the "ok" about sex with your g/f you probably arent ready.....you will know in your heart if you are ready for sex or not, no one on Y! answers can tell you when the time is right....but do realize that sex is a responsibility (using protection, being safe, etc.) and it carries with it not only physical responsibilities, but also emotional responsibilities...if you are asking this question, then I would say that you are not ready....wait until you are SURE that you are ready, it will mean so much more if you wait!!!
2006-07-03 08:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r ready 2 have sex go ahead. But with sex comes responsibility. U must PROTECT urself & ur girl. All the myths about not getting pregnant ur 1st time out is a lie. Please think this through b4 u regret it. Sex tends 2 complicate a relationship. Get all the facts 1st.
2006-07-03 08:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by triniallstar_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to ask, you are not ready.
You will know when the time is right and it should be a spontaneous and natural thing (as long as you have protection on you) and not something that you arrange because a few people say "yes, do it".
Spend time with your girlfriend and just see how things go. If you feel right then it's right... if not then wait a bit longer.
2006-07-03 08:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by dashabout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if... it is not considered statitory rape where you live, you feel comfortable doing it, you feel that you are ready, and you take precautions (condoms, birthcontrol)... then yeah, go ahead and do it.
But remember you can't undo "it" and your relationship might change drastically. You just got to keep in mind that you're gonna have to live with the consequences, whatever they are.
2006-07-03 08:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by Angie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u still hav time to have a sex relasionship buddy! ur only 17 !!! there are lots of other ways of making luv right?
2006-07-04 01:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by scorpio_friendz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex isn't everything but its down to you and when u feel ready then go ahead don't rush into anything it's the same with girls i tell them not to rush into anything so its the same as boys don't rush and take time.
2006-07-03 23:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by miz_roudy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is go for it!
Loving sex with someone you trust can be amazing.
Relax and enjoy!
2006-07-03 08:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd lmao, yet that's merely me. If it became for my birthday, i'd be fantastic with that. yet when it became, like, a 5 12 months marriage anniversary, i'd merely kick him contained in the balls.
2016-10-14 02:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋