I've noticed this for awhile. I just hate when he does that! DAMNIT!GOD! WHY?! OMG! I always thought that my dads a perverted guy! He hugs me to much. Well, just sometimes. But I'm so afraid that something bad is gonna happen! ;-;
He keeps telling me things in front of my brother, to make me feel and look bad in front of him. I live with my brother and my dad. So my dad and my mom are divorced. So I can't live with my mom, cuz I wasn't doing good in school. *Sigh*
Anyways!...My dad can be really nice sometimes but he can also be annoying, and wants to talk to me so much. GOD! I HATE HIM! DAMNIT! I JUST WANT ANYTHING BAD, TO HAPPEN TO HIM! I DON'T CARE WHAT IT IS! AS LONG IT MAKES HIM TO STOP! I DON'T CARE IF ITS HIM DYING OR WHATEVER! I just want Gerard Way to capture me. I know he'll never capture me, or I'll never, you know, run away with him. ;_;
OH! And I've also been noticing about my dad and his gf. When she calls, he never answers his cell phone. He just purposely does that..
2006-07-03 08:23:32 · 15 answers · asked by Helena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to your mom or another adult. Tell them what's going on.
2006-07-03 08:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound very disturbed. Your Dad really bothers you. This is not normal, nor is it healthy.
Calling a school councelor is a good idea, but a very serious step. Has he done anything wrong? Does he "only" hug your upper body? Does he have an erection when he does it? Does he grab your buttocks, or your breasts? If he is touching you sexually you MUST talk to someone and get in a new environment. This kind of treatment can stay with you for years.
Your feelings are not normal. You need to find the root of them (they are either your irrational fears, or your Dad is abusing you). You need to change the root cause and create/get to a more healthy environment.
2006-07-03 08:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop and think for a minute. Being hugged by your father isn't the issue. There is something else going on, either with you emotionally, or between you two physically.
If it is a simple, innocent physicall expression of affection... then there is a reason why you're uncomfortable with that. If it isn't, then THAT is the reason why you're uncomfortable.
Either way, there's a reason you hate your father that has nothing to do with a hug.
2006-07-03 08:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow are you in high school cause i remember that is how i used to be but i would never say that i hate my dad because thats just not nice, you have to remember that he is a guy. I am having a hard time with my boyfriends 4 brothers and his dad cause i grew up with girls and i am not used to guys being so mean to eachother and they treat me like a guy to and i hate it. Your dad is just trying to show off for your brothers i would just blow it off or whenever he gives you a hug give him one back and do it to your brothers in front of their friends.
2006-07-03 09:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by Andi_253 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your dad actually harming you, or is he giving you genuine displays of affection that fathers all over the world give their daughters. Is he hugging you or taking it further? If he is doing more than hugging you, then you should talk to a school counsellor/teacher or a policeman. If he is just hugging you or trying to talk to you in a father/daughter way, stop whinging and be grateful that you have a father that loves you, instead of the millions of kids all over the world who's fathers beat them and rape them.
2006-07-03 08:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by Irish_bi_female 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you're failing because being an athiest isn't contained in the playing cards for you. you should turn lower back to God and provides your existence over to Him and pray for the flaws that you pick help with. it truly is the in straightforward words way that you receives everywhere. God is the in straightforward words way!
2016-11-05 21:20:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are a young teenager. There are a lot of things that you will be learning in the next few years. Your dad is showing you that he cares for you. Why are you angry about it. Think about that for a little while.
2006-07-03 08:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by Norm 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to an adult like a school counselor or teacher. If his hugging you is making you this uncomfortable then it needs to stop. You can also try talking to your mother about this and see if she offers you any advice or maybe even she could talk to him about it.
2006-07-03 08:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to speak to someone from DFACS. You should never feel afraid of your father or uncomfortable to be around him. It sounds like there is more to this than you are revealing. GET HELP NOW!!!
2006-07-03 08:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by crazy cajun 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well it hard to say did he doing something else to if yes then you need to move out and live with your mom but if not he your dad maybe love you and want to spend more time with you
2006-07-03 08:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋