2006-07-03 08:22:36 · 22 answers · asked by Divine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well how bad of a habit is it and why does it torture you? How long did you know him before you got married? He didn't do this thing before you married him so you could decide then to take the relationship further? It would depend on the habit that he has. But if you still love him then can't you find a way to talk to him about the behavior and ask him to quit doing it. Or at least he can only do it when you're not around. When you get married there are things that you just have to learn how to live with in order to live with the one that you love. Maybe you can help him break this habit. You just need to talk to him and you both can sort it out together.
2006-07-03 08:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by Lis 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everyone has bad habits...he had them when you married him, so did and do you. Do you think the he doesn't cring everytime you do something annoying?
I recommend you "fall back in love" with him. It's highly possible that while you love him, you've lost your lust for him and that's the problem not his annoying habits. Plan a quick get away somewhere without work, phones or even an address. Re-live your first date, or re-do your honeymoon (even if your just re-creating Hawaii in your back yard). Don't talk to him yet about your feelings, you'll just hurt him and put him on the defense, save that until you've tried everything else.
If your get away doesn't work, then try one without him. More than just a couple of days, just give yourself a chance to miss the things that you do like about him.
Remember, is a couple of bad habits worth giving up all the good stuff about him, all the reasons you fell in love with him are still there....find them.
2006-07-03 08:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by Amy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are his habits? Did he have them when you married him? You cannot change anyone and you don't just divorce because someone doesn't act like you think they should. If you love him then it is worth going to counseling or talking to him about the things that bother you. Maybe it is deeper then his habit?
2006-07-03 08:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about his habits and let him know how you feel. If you still love eachother you shouldn't get a divorce. Sounds like you both just need to communicate and learn to compromise. Get into marriage counseling if you can.
2006-07-03 08:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. Don't just up and leave him for something that small. He deserves to have a chance to change. Learn to ignore little things like that. If everyone got a divorce over little annoyances no one would still be married.
2006-07-03 08:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need some time to yourself
It will help you to figure out how you really feel and it also will teach him that it's not easy to be w/out you and maybe he should change some of his habits!
2006-07-03 08:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by chigirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters what is his bad habit that is so bad! If he cheating than get rid of him. If it something that can be corrected then if he loves you & you love him have him go to consuling!
2006-07-03 08:25:37 · answer #7 · answered by twinbase@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has there bad habits. if he doesnt know its something he does bring it to his attention. if his bad habbits include gambling or something serious like that seek help for him. if you still love him then its something the two of you can probably work out together
2006-07-03 08:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the same boat, his ignorance to me, i hate it very much, but realize i can do that to him as well, he doesnt like it, if you do that he will start coming around. Just act like you dont care as much as you want him to think , because he will run you over, and see how much he can get away with him.
2006-07-03 08:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it that he does, everyone has a flaw if you can't get pass the small things in marriage you''ll never make it pass the big ones
2006-07-03 08:45:03 · answer #10 · answered by Why 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋