2006-07-03 08:20:51 · 18 answers · asked by Vonda C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
how old are you? no just do not sleep with him!!1
2006-07-03 08:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! This is harrassment, and harrassment is against the law. Wait a minute, you have said yes or no haven't you? There just isn't one good reason to sleep with him. In fact you should be turned off by someone who only values you for sex. How does that make you feel?
If we have self respect and command that from others, then respectful people will be attracted to you. There's a lot of nice people out there who made the wrong decision, and are now dealing with Herpes Virus or worse. It just isn't worth it. Do you hear this guy saying, "Hey I want you to satisfy my needs", because he sure isn't offering to satisfy yours.
2006-07-03 16:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the question seems to be from a young mind, so I will answer it twice:
If you are young (under 17) and not ready to have sex, let them know. If they keep pressuring you and touch you in places that they shouldnt, dont be ashamed to tell a parent, close realitive or friend. If you feel unsafe around them, dont spend any time alone with these people.
If you are older (over 17) and you are not ready to have sex, then tell them that you are flattered but you are not attracted to them in that way. Let them know that you would like to remain friends with them, but if they are unable to behave appropriatly or if they make unwanted advances or touch you, then tell them NO FIRMLY and mean it and leave. If they continue, tell someone.
Its not ok in either situation for someone to put pressure on you to have sex. Seek advice from a trusted adult and do not let anyone make you feel like, because you have known them for a long time that you should or even HAVE to sleep with them.
2006-07-03 15:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by *meh* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to sleep with anyone just because you have known them all your life. If you aren't interested in them and aren't in love (mutually) then you shouldn't sleep with them. Don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want to do.
2006-07-03 15:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on u u shouldnt let him pressure u into anything if ur unsure bout givin it up . once u give it up u can neva get it back. so dnt do it unless ur ready to.
2006-07-03 15:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by yungmajestic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends and move in different circles if you are not interested in being with them.
2006-07-03 15:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by pretty face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would tell him u r not ready. But im a guy, and i know he wil keep trying.
2006-07-03 15:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by ummmmm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all your life? what are you like 12?
2006-07-03 15:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol sleep yaar after all u care about nim isnt it??? now its time to make him bit happy and give hima life time memory...
2006-07-03 15:22:35 · answer #9 · answered by itsborin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents if u are younger. tell the police if u r older.
2006-07-03 15:23:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋