Why do women fake rather than coach their partner?

Question

I have found that most women will put up with mens selfishness. I finally asked my wife what I could do better and was amazed that I was doing most everything wrong. Why do women fake the big O?

Answer 1

I've wondered the same thing when friends have told me they do this very often. I, myself, have never faked - I figure, he's going to enjoy himself, no matter what, so I am always very honest in telling a guy what he can do to make it better for me.

I think most girls are too embarrassed to tell a man what she wants, and don't want their men to feel inadequate in the bedroom. Although understandable to a degree, I wish they would see that when they are more open, it only makes the experience better for all those involved.

Answer 2

Some women find it hard to have the big O with the guy on top and dont really know how to take control. They do it to get it over with.

Answer 3

Who cares, as long as she sounds like she is having a good time, let it be. Some things better left unsaid and that is one of them. Oh, by the way, how do you feel about your performance now? See what I mean.

Answer 4

You have to read between the lines baby....watch their body language if you are really paying attention you will know whats going on.Or maybe she thinks she is doing something wrong.

Answer 5

Maybe they don't want to hurt their partners feelings or have tried coaching with no results? who knows but I tell mine

Answer 6

Because VERY few men take criticism well or seem like they don't even want to hear it!

Answer 7

to avoid arguments or hurting their partners feelings.