My bestfriend and her boyfriend broke up for the 2nd time I really feel they should get back together but...?

Question

She still loves him but she said she doesn't want a boyfriend but inside I know she feels really sad. Although her ex-boyfriend really wants to get back together. I'm trying but now her ex-boyfriend has a new girlfriend but i know he really loves her, but he felt that there is no use to keep trying but, what should I do cause I can't help seeing my bestfriend like this. What should I do?

Answer 1

It is natural for her to be sad, even if she did the breaking up. But if she says she doesn't want a boyfriend, then she doesn't want a boyfriend! Good for her! It takes more than love to maintain a relationship. Just because you love someone, doesn't mean you should stay with them - maybe she realizes that she's young and wants to have other experiences, but it still is sad for her to see him go. Just be supportive, she's doing the right thing, and what more girls SHOULD do. Don't encourage co-dependence.

Answer 2

I think that you should listen to your friend if she says she doesn't want a boyfriend now. If they have broke up twice before, what makes you think if they got back together things would be different this time around? I think the best thing for your friend is to take time and get over this guy instead of going back to him and prolly having to go through another break up with him.

Answer 3

I would stay out of it and let your friend and her ex boyfriend work things out on their own.

Answer 4

stay out of your friend's love life. just be there for her and let her make her own decisions, only advise her if she asks for your advice. seriously.

Answer 5

step back.. dont interfere

Answer 6

wow!!!