The people in my school are really nasty. They somehow found out i was leaving this school even though i didn't tell anyone. This one girl started calling me a chinese hick and cursing at me. She told me everyone was so happy i was leaving. What should i do about it? I feel so stressed out over nothing but her words stick like glue to my mind.
2006-07-03 07:53:30 · 10 answers · asked by dude. 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
She sounds like a total jackass to me. I'm a little older. But at work, when I have to deal with idiots, I have to be nice. So I have found that several tactics work.
When someone goes off like that, they look RIDICULOUS. So you look at her, laugh, and smiling, say "Are you still talking?" Or you can fake a loud "mock" whisper to her, "You look like such an ***. I am soooooo embarrassed for you!" Also a simple, "What a stunning vocabulary you have. I bet your mother is so proud, " works. Then smile a huge fake grin and walk away.
Then everyone is left looking at her. They are thinking the same thing, "She looks so stupid." If you scream back, you look just as bad. Or worse, it makes it look like she's right. And we both know she isn't.
One thing-personally, don't sweat it. Everyone has something said to them, that is crap, once or twice in their lives. And, if the best "negative" thing she can point out about you is that you're Asian, (nothing said about your lack of intelligence, attractiveness, or charm), you should realize she obviously wanted to unload on someone-anyone-it just happened to be you. Leave there knowing if it hadn't been you, it would have been anyone else. And laugh knowing that you don't have to see her everyday, anymore, and they do!
2006-07-03 08:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by barrwiese 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok, this chick sounds really insecure with herself and thinks she needs to put you down to bring herself up. Even though it might be hard to ignore, just ignore her and be the bigger person. Honey don't stoop as low as her. Let her be the ignorant one. She's obviously never been out into the real world where everyone is not the same and there are people of different races, religion etc. And as for the other people, they're just as dumb as her. Don't ever blame yourself for it cuz some ppl are just retarded and narrow minded. Hope things are better at your new school.
2006-07-03 15:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throughout your life, you'll always meet people who would have a natural dislike for you for whatever reason. The best way to deal with it is just to ignore them. Let them say whatever they want to say and act like it doesn't affect you. And don't let it affect you! If you show that you're upset or hurting, you're letting the other person win. You're showing that you're weak and in effect, are allowing the other people to feed off of you even more. By ignoring them, you're showing that you're not going to let them get to you. You're better than them! Oh and look on the bright side, you're leaving the school anyway, so you don't have to put up with these people for much longer. Good luck and I hope this helped!
2006-07-03 15:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by amcstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They best way to deal with it is to kill them with kindness!! Don't just ignore, speak to them kindly every time you see them, and mean it. Be above them...never go to their level.
Mean people are usually not happy with themselves, so remember that!! Feel sorry for that poor girl, and just be nice to her.
Eventually, she will look like a total idiot for being mean to you for no reason.
This works every time!!
2006-07-03 15:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by DoveDog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. Maybe they are jealous of you. Don't stoop to their level by talking back to them. Since you are leaving anyway, you won't have to deal with them again.....problem solved! Oh and smile at them.....they will wonder what you are smiling about....it will really get their goat!
2006-07-03 15:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by Cathy L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your leaving so you dont have to put up with it much longer, but jerks never expect come backs...so just dis her put it on her...if she gets pissed and tries to do something gay...scare her...unless shes big...then that wouldnt be a good idea.
_hope to be of some help_
2006-07-03 15:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does it matter? your leaving!! just be like...i dont give a sh*t...im leaving! say the same things they say to you bacxk to them. or just ignore it and start over at ur new school...im sure ur just as glad that ur leaving!
2006-07-03 14:57:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her and kill her calling u a chinese hick i woulda punch her....im on ur side cause i get mad if people say that to me...and kill her ^_^
2006-07-03 15:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by 사과 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends i like ta fight so if u do just be lik cursing and lik smakin her othawize jus leave her alone
2006-07-03 15:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should diss her.......like if she iz fat u say u r sooo fat tha when u jump an earth quake comezzz....lol.......or just say shut up u moran or loser or other bad wordz tha comesz to ur mind....
2006-07-03 15:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by Madi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋