My husband and I just moved into a house. We dont have curtains in the kitchen or the living room.My next door neighbor is a woman and she lives alone but has a boyfriend.My husband runs around the house in his underwear and he looks over to her house as if he is looking to see if shes looking.Shes an older lady.I have talked to him about this and he says he is not interested in her.But i am starting to wonder. Am I over reacting by getting mad at him for doing this?Another thing he did a few days ago was walk out pretty much naked and said something like I wonder if she could see him and her boyfriend.
2006-07-03 07:48:03 · 19 answers · asked by sweetlittlemama2006 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hes ran around in his underwear more then once and he has even ran around in a towel a couple of times.My neighbors name is phillis and he calls her philly baby.
2006-07-03 08:25:28 · update #1
He is an exhibitioist, he likes people seeing him naked, if you just moved in and she is older, I dont think hes poking her.
2006-07-03 07:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just put some curtains up, and then you can see if he is trying to be seen, or it is your imagination. Has he been a good husband up until now, or has he been a cheater? If he hasn't given you any other reason to believe something is going on, than give him the benefit of the doubt.
2006-07-03 14:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by Stacy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well before the house did he run around in the nude, if so don't worry so much. It sounds like there are other insecurities lurking though. Perhaps ask him not to do it out of respect for you, once the curtains are up....he is free to roam about the homestead nude.
2006-07-03 14:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Dorsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably more of a turn on for him than anything else. You can try walking around 1/2 naked so her b/f could get a chance to see you, and see how he feels about that.
2006-07-03 17:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by C. S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not over reacting and he should cover his plumming. It could be a lude act to be in underwear knowing someone can see you or you make yourself seen. I saw a police show where a man is arrested for Mbtng in the window looking at lady on the street. She called police and he was caugh in the act.
2006-07-03 14:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go and get curtains.The woman next door already has someone to be with her.And ur husband has u.Although its a natural reaction from ur side to be suspicious of his acts,pls keep in mind that men like to be noticed by other females.This doesnt mean that he purposely wants to be noticed and admired of his looks.
2006-07-03 15:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you are over-reacting. i would be mad too. but i would go out and buy some curtains. and see what happens after that. did he walk around in underwear or towel before? just pay close attention to what he does and then go from there.
2006-07-03 15:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by adeleighernandez26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not overreacting. But as the woman of the house I'd suggest you go out get some curtains and soon before he embarrasses everybody.
2006-07-03 15:10:19 · answer #8 · answered by pretty face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be trying to mess with them. Try to get a rise out of them or he may really be interested in the woman. Tell your husband that it really bothers you that he does that. If he's a good husband then he will respect your wishes.
2006-07-03 14:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by big_dog832001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and get curtains and shades put in your windows. Then keep a close eye on your husband. He may be getting his kicks out of this.
2006-07-03 14:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋