2006-07-03 07:45:06 · 17 answers · asked by Jane B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sex Therapy might help?!
2006-07-03 07:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a divorce cause the sex sucks, then I say that you are very immature. That is something that can be worked on. Why did you get married in the first place?
2006-07-03 14:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is just the sex that sucks, and not really a lack of love, why not try to spice things up? There are some good websites which offer some great tips. http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex is one. http://www.sextutor.com/ is another.
If it is not just the sex, and you are truly not in love, then you owe it to him and yourself to end it. But remember, once you end it, it will be nearly impossible to go back, so be sure you are doing the right thing. Besides I am single after being married 13 years, and it is not easy finding a good man.
2006-07-03 15:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by Stacy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Sex is something that can be worked on. You must have been in love with him when you married him. Figure out what it was you fell in love with in the first place and concentrate on those things. Its so easy to get caught up in every day life and look at the faults, thats human nature. being honest with him is your best bet and get a book on sex. There are a lot of decent books out there. talk to him about what you want during sex. Also if you love him you should be able to fall in love with him.
2006-07-03 14:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by NICOLE S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously can not stand the immaturity of the phrase "I love him/her, but I'm not IN LOVE with him/her anymore." Being in love implies that cliched starry-eyed notion of partner perfection and in reality, no one ever measures up to every one of their partner's expectations. Loving someone is different than that and it requires loyalty, compromise, commitment, communication, honesty, etc. Sex is only one aspect of love and if you have these other things with your partner and those issues can be worked on either with a couple therapist or among yourselves. But either way, you should try communicating openly and honestly with your partner first. If you don't have that, you don't have a marriage.
2006-07-03 15:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by Evelyn's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure divorce is the answer to everything
If you have no commitment I say divorce him and let him get on with life, he deserves so much better than you
2006-07-03 14:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mr nice guy 2U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not in love, then yes, maybe you should divorce. It wouldn't be fair to him if you stayed in it and didn't love him.
2006-07-03 14:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by prettymacgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex doesn't last hot and heavy.... If he is your friend, you trust him, and he is a good companion and perhaps father.... keep him. Work with a therapist to revive the heat of the sex.
2006-07-03 14:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup! Or, mabe you suck at the sex thing. I'll bet you didn't think of that did you?
2006-07-03 14:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay married but give me a call. I might just have a small ( not too small) solution for you.
2006-07-03 14:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by profdave99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋