I've been friends with this person for six or so years, but we had a "feud" a year ago. Now we're going to different schools. She was a really close friend, but her nerdiness was always a friction between us. I've tried apologizing, and I truly do miss her. We wrote a series of short explanatory impersonal letters, and two months before school was out, she came up to me and asked me if there was any point to this if we were going to separate schools anyway.
Part of me wants to slap her, but I really do miss her. And what's wrong with going postal? What should I do now?
2006-07-03 07:39:57 · 5 answers · asked by Picard Facepalm 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay, I've figuratively got stretch marks from being the bigger person. She's a really sensitive person, and I sent her a letter explaining all the things I didn't like about her, her flaws, etc. after she wrote an exaggerated essay about how her friend was "ostracizing" her. And then the teacher read it aloud in class.
Sometimes she can be condescending, but I value a lot of her opinions, and I miss her a lot.
2006-07-03 07:48:13 · update #1
And her parents kind of scare me, and give off the aura that I'm not as smart as her.
2006-07-03 07:49:08 · update #2
Aren't big fights inevitable?
I gave her a friggin' chocolate bar for Valentine's Day and an apology note.
2006-07-03 07:49:53 · update #3
I guess she respected me up until the point where I sent her The Letter.
2006-07-03 07:51:00 · update #4
well, I'm kinda going through what you're going through except we're not going to separate schools. we're neighbors. But since you are separating in different schools, this will give you a chance to meet new people. I also need new friends because the so-called best friend used me and kicked me to the curb for someone who is 16 years old. I am 37 years and my best friend who acts likes a child is 36. Go figure huh? If you truly consider yourself a friend to her you would accept her for the whole person that she is. Point blank. My best friend disrespected me and my family. There's a big difference between someone who truly respects you as a person, and someone who uses you for something they want. Always having things their way. That isn't true friendship.
2006-07-03 07:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by ibanezrocker35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 tell U'r friend that up 2 her would mean a lot N a friendship. I mean F 1 of my friends said "I really would like 2 slap U 4 say'n that! I miss U 2 much!" It'll make my day 4 hav'n a friend like that. she jus' needs 2 C it through U'r eye's of what U C N the friendship. Give her a hug N tell her this, it'll make her day 2 know that this GR8 freindship Sn't go'n down the tube! ^_^
2006-07-03 14:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why dont ya try callin her ever now and then, maybe once a month or so call her up and see if she would like to hang out sometime so that you all could talk about things, i mean, you all been friends for so long then why let it all go down the drain? It's time to start acting like adults =]
2006-07-03 14:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if u miss her then i think u 2 are really good friends. its just that we all have a certain things we dont like or would want to change in our friends. but that doesnt mean you 2 are opposites and cannot be friends. tell her what u think she should try changing about her and suggest her something good which might be beneficial for her and her personality. afterall friends are the one who should correct you.
2006-07-03 14:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say u jus slap her or better yet kick her sorry @ss cuz if she doesnt care y should u
2006-07-03 14:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋