2006-07-03 07:31:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sarcasm can be a show of wit, something I've always appreciated, but it's a fine line into rudeness if you're not smart enough. You must decide if he's trying to impress you or others & missing that line, or if he simply doesn't like you.
Either way, he's your boyfriend's pal, so you don't want an enemy, but you don't have to put up with crap either. Be honest & tell him when he's being rude, preferably in front of your boyfriend. Don't be rude yourself! Apart from that, just ignore him. Treat it as the annoying buzz of a fly.
2006-07-03 07:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prepare emotional intelligence. If that's a shopper provider man or woman, get their call, carry close up and redial and ask to communicate to their boss. Be arranged to jot down a letter to the corporation if mandatory. kin member? frustrating. I do exactly not call them for some weeks. Nasty neighbour? Do you in user-friendly terms right to forget approximately approximately this man or woman. in the event that they commence bitching at you in the back of your back, ditto. even nonetheless, in the event that they tell lies approximately you, that's slander, deliver them a solicitor's letter threatening legal action. that should end them. Co-worker - frustrating. attempt and get them on their very own and ask them properly in case you have accomplished something to offend them. fairly a lot of tact are required, because of the fact human beings often times do not comprehend they are being impolite. they might produce different themes, and if those are artwork-appropriate and that they don't opt to talk them with you, merely say, ok, possibly merely circulate the the HR deparment and talk with them. do not talk this with different workers, that would desire to be seen as gossiping and does not endear you to the impolite co-worker. Prospect? She/he does not discover you beautiful, love. do not even difficulty. shopper or shopper: shop asking questions, and once you get the solutions, respond empathetically. in the event that they are short with you because of the fact they don't experience you're addressing their problems, that's recommended to probe into those problems greater deeply because of the fact the reason of them may be some thing different than you think of. If any of the above are decrease than the impression of alcohol or intoxicated in any way, do not talk with them in any respect. Intoxication generally makes human beings lose administration and be impolite, and an excellent kind of of the time they are exceptionally embarrassed afterwards and a few even apologise.
2016-12-08 15:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him.
Either A.....he is just a rude, depressed, angry individual and wants confratation with you. Many that are like this start arguments, etc just to get negitive attention.
Or B....he likes you and is upset his buddy found you first. He is an azz towards you cause if he isn't he's afraid he might just grab you and kiss you.
B happened to me once......gf's best friend was a knock out and I was so rude to her just to keep her at distance otherwise I knew I would get myself into trouble.
2006-07-03 07:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus be sarcastic to him too...iron cuts iron. Or if u dont know what to say...jus use a fake laugh which also looks like a fake one on his sarcasm...Never show anger....
Do tell me how it works out!!!
2006-07-03 07:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by ronin_demarco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend about it. Ask if this guy is just doing this to you because you're dating him or is it because he's like that to everyone? If your boyfriend's friend sees you as a threat to his friendship, you might be getting treated badly, even if he doesn't realise he's doing it.
2006-07-03 07:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well U could tell him up straight that U don't like it. I had that problem w/ my step family when I moved N w/ them. that's all they had Stacasim.... ahhhh it was annoy'n!!! It wasn't cool! I don't know what they liked about it N thier eyes?!?! ehhh ohh well.... U should tell him that it's rude N that he should work on not do'n it NE more.
2006-07-03 07:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would handle him like you would handle any other cocky person just do it with a tiny bit of respect
2006-07-03 07:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. Don't react to it. People like that feed off ur negative reaction. If u can't do that, then avoid him as much as possible.
2006-07-03 07:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by luckyirishgirl2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of ur boyfriends????
Anyway tell him how u feel, if he still continues to be sarcastic and rude...let him go!!
2006-07-03 07:44:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be smarter than him
Sorry didn't mean to be sarcastic!
2006-07-03 07:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋