when you have sex for the first time..does it hurt bad?
(for girls)
2006-07-03 07:21:58 · 35 answers · asked by andre4rap 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
It was really painful for me and i screamed the guys house down haha... but thats just because it was rough and drunken sex. it shouldnt be that painful if you take it slowly and gently, and make sure you're moist down there too cos that helps a lot :)
2006-07-03 07:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm just like u .. but i guess u can see from all those answers that it's different from girl to another.
my advise is try to be so relaxed ..don't be nervous or worried about it ..and even if it hurts the pain will end soon ..
and remember there would be a first time sooner or later but if u are still nervous u can delay it for a while .. it's not the end of the world and believe me, love has many great things besides sex...
good luck
2006-07-03 07:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by oomx555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All girls are different. For me, it hurt, but the pain goes away after a while. You do have to just get through it and after a little while it gets better. But I hope you won't be having sex until you are older, that is, if you are young.
2006-07-03 07:26:11 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really, it was ok. But let me tell you girl.....make sure before you have sex, that this will be an experience you will not later regret, you only get to lose your virginity once. And make sure the guy is really worth it!!! I lost mine young and now I wish I would have waited because it opened up a door which led to worse things like drugs and horny men and rebellling against my parents and now I am a single mother of two so be safe not sorry!
2006-07-03 07:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by *♥* Igotorbs*♥* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for some girls it does, but for others it doesn't. Some girls like to be safe and try it first with a dildo. That way if it hurts them, they don't have to embarrass a guy and they can try it over and over again to get used to it.
With a dildo, a girl can take her time and have as many orgasms, than with a guy. Because some guys only like to do a quicky and get out.
Your question is very interesting :)
2006-07-03 07:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not for me at least, it hurt only a tiny bit, it kinda rubs you raw more than anything. and i was only a little sore untill about halfway through the next day. but it wasnt bad at all. just dont worry about the pain, relax, and focus on the guy, it is better to remember that, because that is a VERY special time. just enjoy it
2006-07-03 07:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Nurse Autumn Intactivist NFP 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may and it may not but if you younger than 18 I strongly suggest you waiting don't rush into anything you don't fully understand. If you are over 18 and have waited this long you might as well wait until you are married girl and save all for your husband and lay it on him. I don't believe in sex before marriage.
2006-07-03 07:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by kiea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does hurt. How bad it hurts depends on the girls tolerance for pain
2006-07-03 07:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the girl above. It depends. For someone whose hymen is already broken, it hurts less, but generally, it does hurt a bit. Depends also on penile size, history of sexual contact before, pain threshhold, level of arousal, etc.
2006-07-03 07:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by MistysFrosted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not particularly. I think people think it hurts worse then it actually does because it's a type of pain that you've never felt before. If you can relax and go slow, it barely hurts at all. :o)
2006-07-03 07:48:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋