Men only....?

Question

Y do u lie to women just so u can have sex with them? Then once u get what u want u up and leave, WHY??? Somebody explain that 2 me PLEASE!!!

Answer 1

You answered your first question already. Men lie so that they can have sex with you. That's the only reason. You also answered your own second question as well. They leave because they already got what they wanted from you. We men usually know what women want to hear. It's up to you women to be vigilant and not fall for all of the lines. It happens all too often.

Answer 2

because if a guy just came up to u on the street and said, hi i'm joe, lets go have sex, what would ur responce be, probably a slap across the face, woman say they want honesty from a man , but then when they get it they say men are pigs, or pervs, and all we think about is sex, ,, well yes all we do think about is sex, when, where, how ,, how often,, men are about the physical , women are about the emotional, most women now adays, feel they are above the one nighters, the flings, the no strings attached sex, ,,, but what they dont seem to relize is ,, that is what most men want,,, thier not looking for relationships,,, to a women a relationship is,love, honesty, caring, respect, friendship.,,, to a man a relationship is,, oo cool i dont have to look for sex anymore, thats it ,, so when the sex dies off, the man will start to stray,,

Answer 3

Men lie because women punish them for telling the truth, and we learn that quickly.
On a very deep emotional level, men get our sense of self-esteem primarily from our careers (signifying success in the struggle for survival) and from sex (signifying success in the struggle for procreation). Everthing else pales in comparison to these two issues.
Men feed their self esteem one way or the other. If it's not fed at work, it HAS to be fed in bed. An emotionally healthy man will do this through a stable, loving relationship (the complete package of success in the struggle for procreation). Those who are unhealthy will do this through a series of sexual conquests. Since the good feeling this brings is very, very transitory, they have to do it again and again. For some, the process of conquest begins again the moment the last conquest occured.

The fact that many men are emotionally unhealthy, with tender little egos, doesn't mean we all are. Make better judgements of the ones you choose.

Answer 4

I have never lied for sex. Unfortunately I do see what you are talking about alot from men. Sex is a social thing guys use to test their manhood. I personally think it isnt right. But on the other hand I also have seen women that lie to men about loving them just to boost their ego and dump them once they win their heart. So I think its kinda tit for tat.

Answer 5

sorry dear but please do not judge ALL men based on your experience with SOME of them, there are just rotten people. You know there are a lot of girls that also lie abou their feeling they have sex just for the presents, social status, the car etc I think you should look for someone who doesnt lie and isnt just into having one night stands. Not all men are exemplar likewise with women ....there are some real bitches out there, thank God ive met only a couple.. hence my experience

Answer 6

I do not think that it is men's intention to just leave a lady like that. the truth however is that, sex is a major determinant of whether or not to continue in a new relationship

Answer 7

Men lies becasue have sex to make points i guess. I never want to lie to my wife becasue I love her more than anything int he world and so my kids too. Men lies becasue have no People Skills to understand what men need to know how to be a man in the real world.

Answer 8

just the way some guys are, they dont mature fast as women do so alot of guys can still act immature even when they are an adult. i can say that ive never done this, im probally the closest thing to the perfect man.

Answer 9

I don't , I use them over and over again for sex, lol. easy sex is easy sex. I don't have to lie either, women want sex as bad as men do, they just don't want to be thought of as cheap so they lie to themselves and tell themself they are in love. quit screwing for love and admit you like sex, it will save your feelings.

Answer 10

If a guy does this then it's because he know he can. If you wanted something more from the relationship then you should keep your legs shut, make him work for it and if he cares about you he will hang around.