My bfs by himself as his parents at young age,ABADONED him.Hes educated professional.LONELY.He keeps it bottled up.Im online 24/7 talk on phone.I tell him im always there for him to talk to.I send him notes & ecards telling him i love him.What else can i do or say to get him to open up more/talk to me,to know im here for him.Please explain.
2006-07-03 06:49:51 · 8 answers · asked by moonzsunzstarz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
let him know ur there for him every day every minute it makes him love u all the more.in time hell just know u love him unconditionally.give space if he wants it not if he wants u to be there.unconditional love conquers all.
2006-07-03 07:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Back Off, Give Him Space When he feels like opening up he will. He may just be trying to sort it all out Himself. And he don't need hourlly or daily reminders he was Abandoned as a child. I know it's in Our Female Make up to want to fix and repair the wounded but their are time we have to Wait.
2006-07-03 06:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by lovetta_patterson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men were born and raised to bottle up our emotions. It may not be good for us but we are instinctively good at it.
Are you there for him as a buddy or are you hoping to make it an affair? If he has a slew of issues right now, a buddy could be welcome. But a lover could be scary because a lover brings with her obligations and commitments. Be the friend you say you are: back off and just be a buddy.
2006-07-03 06:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by Fred S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him to open up.. cause untill he releases his pain there is never any room for answers.. hate to say it but life has alot of abandonments... you haft to except and make new family members, just cause the blood is the same doesn't mean your tied for life, there is always someone that will love you more i promise...
2006-07-03 06:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by sharbear1100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably afraid to open up and share. Afraid of the same feeling of abandonment.
Reassure him, and be honest!
2006-07-03 06:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Versatile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
supporting him is all you can do, he needs to talk to a professional that is not involved with him emotionally to help him sort out his hurt and anger from his parents abondment..you are a good girl for wanting to help him get thru this
2006-07-03 06:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by beaniefufer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he need professional help it, sorry to say, he know you love him he just don't know how to tell you, and inside of him he loves you, keep it up and soon he will open up.
2006-07-03 06:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by IndyMM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should keep doing that and maybe take him to a consular. (no offense)
2006-07-03 06:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by Taliea2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋