2006-07-03 06:45:21 · 70 answers · asked by Richgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I personally think that she should not marry him because of the differences they may see in life, they may do well as lovers but, not as a married couple.
In the beginning it will be fun for the two of them, but once the honeymoon was over then things would go down hill because she may forget that he is her husband and not her son, and then he may want to go out with the boys or out clubbing and she may want to stay home and just cuddle, they may not see life in the same way because of the things she have been through and the things he haven't been through yet.
They may have different goals in life.
If I were them I would think long and hard before making such a big step in that direction.
Good Luck......
Just remember there is good things & bad things in every relationship, nothing is promised in life it's what you want and what you bring to the relationship that makes it work or not work....
2006-07-17 04:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well whoopteedoo, here everyone thinks 45 or 65 is old..sure, you probably all in your teens hehehe.
Why would anyone be repulsive at 65..some are at 20 hahaha. Everybody is stuck on numbers..the heart has no knowledge of numbers. What the heck does age have to do with love anyway? Nothing!!!.
I have some friends who are my age married to guys when the guys were thirty and trust me the marriages are working out better that two of the same age.
My future husband is 32 and am 62..do I look repulsive..probably more active than he is. hahaha.
2006-07-16 16:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Amerindienne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool for him and her both! He gets the experience of a 45 year old woman, she gets the excitement of a 25 year old man. Not sure if it would work out in the long-term though but definitely good in the short-term.
2006-07-03 06:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Smiley girl and guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be honest and know that you are really in love with him, not lust.
But even more important than that be sure that he is really in love with you, If he is a good hard working man that treats you good I understand why you would want to marry him, but understand you can not mold a man into what you want him to be.
His age and life experiences makes him who he is, also understand this how he acts at 25 is not how he will act at 30's 40's & 50's Just think how you were at age 25 and how you are now.
As you get older will you be secure in yourself that your husband-to-be will not be attracted to younger woman but, to end this you always love who you love and want who you want.
Without taking chances this world would be in an awful state, So go for it it may be the best ride of your life.
You'll never know unless you go!!!!!
Good Luck.....
2006-07-17 05:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, the age difference in any couple should be as much that they both understand each other, the generation gap is too vast that the cooperation can never be maintained for long.
moreover, for a 45 year old,25 year old should be like her son n not bf.
it can further be explained as if you go anywhere the public will definitely pass wrong comments and slowly and gradually the guilt will take over the love no matter how deep is Ur love...........
2006-07-03 06:58:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number. I am marrying a woman 13 years my junior and I have more in common with her than any other woman I have met. My dad married a younger woman about the same age difference as I am and has ben married 23 years now. It can work. Honesty and communication is the key to any relationship.
2006-07-03 06:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by cplhuntley85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why she can't marry him. He not jail bait, he old enuf to sleep by hiself, and make up his mind. If they so much in love with one another. Then why would age be a problem. Just think of it this way.
Switch the number on both their ages. She is 45, turn around she be 54. He is 25, turn it around he be 52.
But anyway, they are old enuf to know better . So they want each other, love each other, and care about each other. Then let them marry each other. If her kids don't like it. Oh well, she raise them, her job is done. Let her do , what she wants to do.
2006-07-03 07:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can safely speak from experience on this. I am happily married to an older woman myself. In fact, all the woman I have been with are older than I. It solely depends on what is in both of your hearts. If you two truly love each other, then there is no reason why you two shouldn't get married. As long as there is great communication between you and can get past all the of the petty stuff, your marriage will survive. I wish you both the best. It wouldn't hurt to be in church that way you can have the love and blessings of God in your lives.
2006-07-03 06:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by raiderfan4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 49 and a 31 year old man is attracted to me. I wish with all my heart I was younger. Now at this age it would be short term only. Lets face it...right now it would work but when I am 60 he will still be young and want a woman with a cute body. I refuse to invest all my heart in this and get back nothing on the return but losing. I'm worth more than that. Society would frown on it. My children are his age. I refuse to lower myself to this. He is the best thing I have ever wanted. I wish him well. There are fish in the sea. It is sad, I love him but no I refuse to allow this spark. My heart couldn't stand the end.
2006-07-16 06:25:50 · answer #9 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
45 is the new 35, 25 is the new...
2006-07-03 06:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by IrishGuitar70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋