What do guys like in the appearance of a girl?

Question

I am 13 with blonde hair, blue eyes, I am 5'3 and I wear glasses. What do guys like? I want to know what i can do to get a new bf to replace my last heartbreak.

Answer 1

There will be guys who will like you. In terms of appearance, different guys like different looks. Don't worry about the glasses -- some guys don't mind them, and others even find glasses attractive.

Until you meet your next boyfriend, I'd suggest spending your time doing things that you enjoy. That way you'll be happier, you'll be more objective in deciding whether the next guy is right for you, and you'll have more to talk about and do together when you do meet someone new.

Answer 2

I have to agree with the others for the most part. Besides, what you're really after is acceptance for who you are and someone to love you for you. What you need to do is accept that what you had with that other guy was just not working. I feel sorry for you. That time of my life was when the true chaos of life truly started for me.

I feel I should actually answer your question despite the situation however. Every guy is different. I personally have given my situation alot of thought. I have divided my feelings into special categories which I think everybody has.

First is "luster" which is how sexy a girl is. Face it, if a guy doesn't like the thought of having sex with you things won't fit well, though this isn't the most important thing.

Second is "beauty" which is how beautiful a girl/women looks. When I say beauty I mean the look that makes a guy hang on every word you say, the same look that makes a guy want to fight for you.

Third is "friendly" which basically says how well you get along with the person. Obviously a girl you enjoy spending time with and can talk to is more attractive than someone who resembles a blank log.

Fourth is "reflective". Reflective is when a girl becomes attractive simply because of them being attracted to you. The reason this works depends on multiple levels but believe me it happens.

For what you need I recommend you keep your self healthy and well groomed, your natural beauty will do the rest. Being open and honest wouldn't hurt either.

Answer 3

Don't replace anything to solve a heartbreak. When I was 13 I had glasses and braces. I didn't have a boyfriend and I was happy. Boys are just trouble, and you have to realize that right now, they are not as smart as you. Enjoy your friends, your family, and being a cute 13 year old. Go out with friends, they are more fun anyway.

Answer 4

hey funny!yes you asked goodquestoin.But lucky sorry for saying this first of all try to know about u . see u are still 13 and u wanted a boyfrnd means its a meaningless &u are saying that u want to replace . see,first cincentrate on your carier then automatically all happens. But remember onething Outer appearance is greater than innerone.I don't want to discourage u
this is true.

Answer 5

First wait 5more years ,then dont change a thing Find some one who sees you as perfect as you are. at your age now .You will be dealing with mostly jerks ,and it wont get much better later ,but then you should be more selfconfident and ready to ditch the jerks at a moments notice.

Answer 6

We like the appearance of what a 18 years old girl look like.

Answer 7

13?
Maybe you should stop worrying about boyfriends until you're 16 or 17. Concentrate on your schoolwork instead.

or are you one of those undercover police officers who trolls the internet, looking to catch pedophiles?

Answer 8

well take it from me i am 13 I'm 5'10 and i look for a nice cheerful person with good attitude and likes to have fun and i don't care if they ware glasses.

Answer 9

You are 13. You do not need a boyfriend.

Answer 10

just a suggestion, take or leave it, is free anyway

why don't you study, get a career, develop a personality and get a hobby that way you don't NEED a BF and if you get one it will be because your personality and not for looks