he just told me that he cheated on me and i love him so much and he told me he needed a brake for this summer so he can party and after summer he wants to come back and be with me do i forget him or do i wait for him i just love him so much.
2006-07-03 06:13:50 · 30 answers · asked by pinkflip_16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
F* up his car. It'll send a good message through
2006-07-03 06:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by Southpaw 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
are you sixteen? Is this hhis age or close to it?
if so it is time to move on. He loved you and you loved him.. you thought. I KNOW THAT IT HURTS, BUT HIS HONESTY MAY BE JUST THAT,PERHAPS HE is just emotionally immature, and if you are both that young, it is giving you the opportunity to meet other people, which is importand, You love him so much and i kknow you are in pain, but you will love again, and again probably.
He probably has loving feelings for yoou , but when it is a "MALE" he also has testosorin issues (I THINK I SPELLED THAT WRONG) anyway, they said the best revenge is to "live well" NOT THAT REVENGE IS THE ANSWER,, AFTR YOU GET OVER THE CRYING,, remember this, the good feelings and special moments you felt when with h im, are not the only feelings you have been able to experience,, Girl, there is a whole great big exciting world waiting for you.. and one day, some other guy, will "RING YOUR CHIMES" and it WILL FEEL BETTER, AND BE BETTER. i am not the 'LOVE AUTHORITY, I AM a woman who like many including your mother, who had broken hearts, but this is part of life, and although it hurts, the excitement and passion, and greater opportunities are right there for yhou.. Please just look forward to what you want, and tell him thank you for being honest, and that there is no re way you want to wait for him, no reason, you already had the best he had to offer, and now, you (YOU WANT MORE AND BETTER FROM SOMEONEYU CHOOSE TO BE CLOSE TO) and that he "doesn't qualify" AND be a lady about it, smile, and wish him the very best, and do understand that he is no longer welcome in your life. THATS IT, START PARTICIPATING IN YOUR OWN LIFE, AND JUST LOOK BACK AT THIS TIME AS WONDREFUL WHILE YOU HAD IT, AND THE GOOD NEWS IS THE NEXT BOYFRIEND YOU GT,, WILL BE EVEN GREATER.. GOOD LUCK
2006-07-03 11:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may also love you but doesnt want to be with you as he knows that while he is partying he may want to get off with other people etc... If he was with you, he knows this would be cheating on you and doesn't want to hurt you like that. What he probably doesn't realise is that he is hurting you this way also. He doesnt trust himself to be faithful and so by being on a brake with you, thinks that he is doing right. If he says he wants to get back with you after summer he obviously still cares about you. As for already cheating on you, i would think of a very evil way to get your own back!!!!!
2006-07-03 06:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are willing to accept him coming back after the summer is over, you have some serious esteem issues, don't let anyone treat you like you are lesser of a person that doesn't deserve respect, but if you wanna have some fun with it , since he has already cheated and you will never get over that, tell him yes, you think it's a good idea to part ways for the summer, you need time to sort some things out. don't try to mindphuck him and elude to a new guy, keep him guessing, he will know you are playing him if you suggest their might be another guy, just say ok and drop the subject, the more you talk, the more you give yourself away.
sit back and wait for him to squirm. if he calls, chat a minute or two , then off the phone. don't bring up you and him. tell him you will call him back and don't . make him call you back, it will help your esteem. . when someone wants to play headgames with me, I make my mind up they aren't for me, and I let them believe that they are getting their way 100%. but I know in my mind they will never win me over. why try to convince someone to love you when they clearly don't. you can't trick anyone into loving you.
2006-07-03 06:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So basically he said he wants to have sex with other people this summer and not get in trouble with you for it. In the mean time you will sit and wait all summer for him, when obviously he doesn't desreve you, when a real good man will pass you by. I think you should try to see what's out there this summer and if you still feel the same way and he hasn't totally broken your heart with the stuff he's done all summer go back to the jerk!
2006-07-03 06:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by sexzbich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. What girl in her right mind would want this guy after he has been playing and partying around. You are worth more than that. Don't let this guy use you. I've been there and its no fun. Find you someone who will be honest and not cheat on you. The love you feel for him will fade in time. He's not worth your love.
2006-07-03 06:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by KyStar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to forget about him dear. a man like that sounds like he's not ready for commitment but party and still be with other women. dont wait til after the summer and get your heartbroken, ive been in ur position before. it's alot easier and less painful to let him go. Good luck with whatever u decide to do :-)
2006-07-03 06:17:46 · answer #7 · answered by bishdnjuan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WALK AWAY. You are not any ones toy they could just put down and pick up whenever they need to play. there are many more fish in the sea and you will find someone especially since it summer
the summer always brings new things and cute guys;)
2006-07-03 06:17:55 · answer #8 · answered by QUEEN OF LOS ANGELES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you appreciate that he has told you.
Sit down with him and talk it out, and find out what is misisng in your relationship that he had to go elsewhere.
Let him know that you both need to be together this summer to be able to work this out.
Make sure that he is still committed to you.
If hes not then you cant make him come back to you.
Even if he does come back he may not be as in love with you as you may be with him.
2006-07-03 06:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by creskin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, Don't let him have the opportunity again. Obviously he is not serious about the relationship. So you need to find someone who will be. Let him know what he missed out on. If it is meant to be. It will happen. But, live your own life and go on as if you are having a great time.
2006-07-03 06:22:10 · answer #10 · answered by kitty kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on if you have any self respect. The truth of the matter seems to be that he does not respect you enough or feel any sense of commitment to you to stay with you. But, you will be his safe harbour, after he has gone out and enjoyed the world. Make sure he gets his shots and tested for HIV. Also, make sure he didn't get anyone pregnant while he is out s crewing all those other ladies.
Just think about how you prefer to be treated, make it about you, not him.
2006-07-03 06:18:32 · answer #11 · answered by bairland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋