me and my boyfriend of 6 yrs split up before the split me my bestfriend and my boyfriend was living together my boyfriend kicked me out and now him and my best friend are living together me and my ex has 2 kids together and he doesnt want anything to do with them but my best friend thinks there is nothing wrong with the situation and to top it all off i am the one that got the place for them how do i handle this
2006-07-03 06:07:46 · 9 answers · asked by confuzed1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to reconsider what a "friend" is. You need to re-evaluate what you think a suitable husband/companion/boyfriend is. You are describing people that are undependable, unreliable, angry. You may or may not have had a part in the current situation, but you need to move on. Change playmates and playgrounds, and learn what a GOOD FRIEND really is. Good Luck !
2006-07-03 06:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by SpongebobRoundpants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hold on something will come up soon if it hasnt already so look widely for answers you should find one in you if your ex is like bad in some way for your friend dont tell her to leave him thats her choice respect that but be happy the you got the children a place to stay all good things come back to those who give it stands in the bible and it is true think of all the stuff you have gained from people and alll the stuff you have done so you received and you gave to others so it's a good thing
2006-07-03 06:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up, smell the coffee and check the lease. How can you be put out of a place that you leased? By law, they should not be able to occupy unless they are named on th rental agreement. Look at your lease, verify who are occupants and who is the lessee. If you are listed as the lessee, call the landlord and the police to gain entry. Do not allow them to force you out of what is rightfully yours. When all of this is over, get a new friend and a new boyfriend too. Make the right choice...you and your children should be first
2006-07-03 06:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by gmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best friends dont do this,if she was really a good friend she would have moved out,and if she cant see that there is anything wrong with the situation she is sick!!!
i think she likes your ex boyfriend and have from a long time ago,be carefull because she will stab you in the back,probably already have.think about your kids at the moment,dont waste your energy on worrying about him or even her,make sure your kids are sorted,dont worry everything will come together eventually,i know it hurts now,but it wount hurt forever.
GOOD LUCK !!!
2006-07-03 06:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by nicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you are more women than me. I have on the whole mentioned, i do not share, and for excellent intent. Comprehend this, if you happen to proceed to allow him to keep up a correspondence along with his ex's child, and i don't see how you're no longer, his ex will continuously be part of his existence. Why does he must chat along with his ex for hours? . . . Healthy boundaries must be set. And revered by means of each of you, should you two quite want this to work. It is usual to consider jeleous when your boyfriends ex is taking is taking over a variety of his time. Comply with your coronary heart & comunicate. Be actual to yourself what ever you do.
2016-08-08 23:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by reeve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think he was with her if i were you to tell you the truth.But if you want to find out the best way to do it is to talk to your friend find out if they have been dating or going out to party's and stuff if she says they haven't you can ether take her word for it or dump her and get a new best friend .............remember what ever she tells you could be a lie
never forget the truth hurts
P.S. i think it's wrong for not to be in your kids life And don't just stand back let them live in a house you bought tell the guy that if wants nothing to do with your kid's then buy his own house!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-03 09:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lipglosschica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they were really you bff thn they wouldnt do that to do wht u need to do is get a new best friend and someone tht will support u and your kids then rub it in there faces!!!! thats wht i would do lol
2006-07-03 06:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by ashes_chik258 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new best freind or new boyfriend of tell them your sorry or talk to them or get conciling
2006-07-03 06:13:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they're dating and just not telling you - sorry.
2006-07-03 06:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋