My husband keeps leaving and when he does leave he leaves for hours at a time. He isnt into sex like he used to be. I even held out on him for like a couple of weeks just to see what happens and nothing happened.
2006-07-03 06:06:06 · 9 answers · asked by lady_firefighter26 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If his sex drive has diminished (with all respect to you) he may be getting what he wants somewhere else. However, you cant accuse him without concrete proof. If your marriage truly means everything to you, consult him about it and tell him about your needs. If he is understanding, compassionate and truly loves you he willl listen. if not, ask him if he will consider a marriage counselour. You have every right to be happy. Best of luck
2006-07-03 06:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Rob 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U could check his underwear look for white stains, check credit card receipts unless he pays cash, check wallet for cash at the time he leaves and when he comes back home, have a close relative or Friend who you TRULY trust to follow him, he may be stressed out with work, or financial problems, maybe he got loans that u do not know about and u and him are in DEBT, those are some things that may make it seem that he is unfaithful, check mobile calls on cell bill, hope this helps
2006-07-05 12:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEX is a big sign and if he didn't say anything for a couple of WEEKS? then sorry you need to ask him and find out the truth. SEX to all men is a big issue and him being okay w/o it would make any woman wonder.
Good Luck
2006-07-03 13:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by QUEEN OF LOS ANGELES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that a big sign!! ..... But y not follow him when he leaves.... where does he go and what is he doing? also ask him what he dos when he goes out..... if he's with friend then ask who? and call his friend and make up a conversation the get it out of the freind if he was really with him or not....... also check his Cell phone bill and see if there are any wierd numbers there.... U can call his wireless compony let them know u'r his wife give them info and also ask them for a copy if u dont get one at home...... there are alot of way to find out ........ u just need to look...... Good LUCK
2006-07-03 13:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw a detective on Oprah one day and he gave these tips. Hit redial on your phone to see who's called. Check credit card slips. Check phone records. Does he shower immediately upon returning home? Or does he smell fresh like he just had a shower? Has he bought newer, sexier, underwear? You can always just ask him. He would probably lie, but at least he would know you suspect something. Good luck.
2006-07-03 13:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by sparkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. BUT sounds like either he is cheating or has some kind of other problem (depression, drugs, alcohol). Behavior changes are outward signs that something is wrong inside. It is not YOU though (even though it is effecting you), it is him that has the problem.
2006-07-03 13:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, my man cheated on me and he did the same thing. We are no longer together. He wasn't interested in sex, he stayed out late (sometimes overnight) he would say that he was working late or going out with his friends, when really he was with her. Also, he used to lock his cell phone so I couldn't look in it. Dump him!
2006-07-03 19:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know how to tell when your husband is cheating.
Seems as if yours is.
2006-07-03 13:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by brad_left_jenn_for_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lesion to your heart woman intrusion is never wrong
2006-07-03 13:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋