How to be a 'perfect' wife for a man?

Answer 1

Of course you can tell that there are a lot of skeptics out there. The best I can give you is to pray about it. Ask the Lord to give you the "tools" you will need. Read the Bible. If you have any questoions, you can e-mail me.

Answer 2

I would think that some men may think that their wives are perfect... of course they may not be do everything perfectly everyday,,but get it right most of the time.

The things that I think my husband would think that qualifies as me being a "perfect" wife would be:

Cooking dinner / it doesn't have to elaborate.

Cleaning his work clothes

Being a companion for him

Watching a sports game every once i a while w/ him

Not complaining too much..

Not talking about his parents

Not cutting him down

Laughs at his jokes.

Listens when he is tired

Allows him a few minutes after work to re group.

Has a great time and is very appreicative while on vacation

Offering to run an errand for him

Help w/ the household funds ; by not splurging while shopping////////

I bet my hubby would give up everything if only I would save more...!! But , sorry ,, that isn't going to happen,, I feel that I do keep a clean, organized,, fun filled home,, so therefore I am entitled to have a few goodies,, if I see that our budget allows it!!! Although I don't look at this as getting paid back!! I just love to shop! and always have,,and he knows this!

Answer 3

There is no such thing as a perfect anything. You just be yourself. Be the best wife and woman you know how to be, and make sure you demand that best husband he can be. This goes both ways. Make sure you don't lose yourself in trying to be what you think your husband wants you to be. He fell in love with you for being you. Don't change that too much. Of course, there will be some changes, but communication is very important. Make sure you keep the communication open with him. If you are not married yet, discuss this with him. Talk about what you expect from him and what he expects from you. Make sure you are doing the right thing.

If you are already married, discuss this anyway. Good luck

Do not settle for something that you don't like. If he does something you do not like, such as looking at other women while he is with you, then you should say something. Do not make a scene, but make it known that you do not like or feel respected when he does that.

Answer 4

perfect wife... hahahahaha! too funny! There's no such thing. I have done everything possible to please my husband, cook,clean you know, be me it dont work. I even bring him lunch because I wanted to cook him lunch while at work. He thought it was nice for a while then didn't. But, as soon as the vehilce went down he realized he loved it and missed it. He actuaaly looked forward to seeing me and eat'n my food. All I can say is show him you love him all the time. Don't forget to forgive him and also to say sorry when needed too.Most important no matter what always truely listen to him no matter how annoying he gets. Find solutions to solve problems and don't run away from the marriage. You can work though ANYTHING IF BOTH R WILLING! Communication is the answer. also ocassionly discuss not argue on important things keep open mind.

Answer 5

Communicate!

Let him know what you are all about. Although you should have had this conversation before you even started dating. LOL

Also, trust your relationship. If you listen to others who aren't married and the such, you may lose possibly the best thing that happened to you.

Friends, gals/guys, family and all of that can give you advice because of possible past experiences, they don't know the intimate details. Do NOT give them those either. Don't get me wrong but you just never know the motivation of things said at times. Give them the situation but also have somethings worked out in your head also. Going with what you spirit tells you usually works most of the time.

One more thing, insist on honest from him also. If he can not do that, your "marriage" will fail.

Suspicion leads to mistrust and that destroys everything that the both of you have.

Answer 6

There is no such thing in this world. All couples must learn to accodomate each other and not control each other. Since you have been together for so long, do find a chance to sit down and have a nice chat with him. Just a word of advice " Be open minded for the discussion."

Answer 7

Be his "helpmeet". His supporter, his friend, his clean up crew, his lover. Be open to learning his wants and needs like the back of your hand. Learn to anticipate his needs in a given moment.

Take on being a wife as you would any other job. As with any job. If you do a good all around job..there are benefits: happiness, love, children, laughs, long lasting marriages and side by side rocking chairs ;-)

Best of luck to you!

Answer 8

There is no such thing as a perfect wife. If he doesn't love you for you then he doesn't deserve you. Don't try to make your self perfect. Besides he fell in love with you for you. Not for who you aren't.

Answer 9

There is no such thing. No one is perfect, and marriages are a give and take from both sides. Each relationship is different and changes with time.

Answer 10

marriage takes a lot of work it is a constant battlefield! u compromise and he shud too at times..u have to understand the basics men need to be with their guy friends sometimes, if they look at a woman who passes by it does not mean they are cheating on u..its their nature, they most likely will not help u do housework so nagging them 24/7 just pisses them off! give them some freedom and they will be good to you......just be yourself if he married u then thats what he likes!