is it possible to be friends with benefits and have some emotional attachment even though if both people r in a relationship?
2006-07-03 05:47:48 · 16 answers · asked by candygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It may be possible, but not for me. I do not sh*t where I eat. Too much stuff to handle!
2006-07-03 06:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's possible. I look at it this way...the both of you are lacking something in your relationships so you are reaching out to each other. You never know it may end up that the two of you belong together.
Be careful though. Hurt feelings and embarrassment is never good. If things were to get very serious you both should make some decisions to have a healthier relationship whether it be with each other or with the one your are already with.
2006-07-03 12:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by tasgilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both people r in a relationship u really shouldn't be friends with benefits. Isn't that wat ur relationships r for? If u love ur partner why hav someone on the side? Friends with benefits r 4 people who aren't in a relationship because they aren't willing to commit to anything, but they want "The Benefits". Personally, I think its wrong. Sex is something that 2 very commited people do to show each other how much they luv each other. U should chose ur friend with benefit or ur partner, not both. Its not loyal, ur practically cheating! However, if both of ur partners agree with ur "friend with benefit" thing then i guess it is ok.
2006-07-08 02:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such things as friends with benefits. Sex is not as casual as you think and I assume that's what you mean by "benefits". Sooner or later one or both of you will realize that what you feel is either lust or love. Whichever it is no one wins in this game because someone will be hurt. Stop playing. If you two want to be "friends with benefits" quit your current boy and girl friends and become a couple. That's your friend with benefits...boyfriend and girlfriend.
2006-07-03 12:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by gmommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way this works is if the partners know about it and agree to it. Otherwise the mere act of screwing another person is usually infidility and can lead to broken relationships. Ask your partner what they think; you might be surprised by the answer you get.
2006-07-03 12:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by gigantic_zebra_on_buffet 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it is not ok to be friends with benefits with somebody who is in a relationship. well does this guy feel something for u?
2006-07-03 13:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's deceptive.
Why the need for a FWB if you're in a relationship?
That's sneaky and not very nice to do to each of your significant others.
2006-07-03 13:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by brad_left_jenn_for_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is,probably happens all the time.
2006-07-03 12:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by hoop_102 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course
2006-07-03 12:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course its possible happens alot
2006-07-03 12:53:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋